We are the most desired and hated at the same time
2026-09-29 20:12:22
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vauris8 :
We have no allies, or support. I pray for the day us brothas start sticking together.
2026-09-29 17:26:04
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ry 🪷 :
it definitely goes both ways, you probably aren’t on the receiving end of it but there’s a lot of content of bm degrading bw as well. it shouldn’t have to be like that, but people are siding with personal experiences and using that to generalize the both
2026-09-29 20:00:20
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Introspective1 :
I think you’re taking “Black men are hard to love” as a personal statement about your worth, your Blackness, and your manhood, when the woman was talking about relationship dynamics. If you felt that statement was dehumanizing or triggering because of your own experiences and the things you endured growing up, I can understand why it hit a nerve—but that still doesn’t make it a statement that you, as a Black man, are inherently unworthy of love or somehow hated because you’re Black. If anything, you should have addressed what you have experienced in your relationships with women, because that’s what the original conversation was about. Instead, you turned a relationship discussion into a referendum on your identity and your personal trauma.
2026-10-02 06:42:44
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d wrek :
they hate us cause we can do everything with ease 💪🏾😎
2026-10-02 19:00:57
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Mya :
Yep we're in the same boat bro, get therapy and love yourself 👍🏾
2026-10-01 01:55:58
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👸🏾Kane :
Damn 💔😔 black women are experiencing the same thing. Black men are dogging black women out so bad on social media & even siding with white men who talk about black women. Our community needs to heal. I hate this division. I'm so sorry that you're experiencing this.😔
2026-09-29 22:03:17
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AMari Rose :
i wonder why
2026-10-01 18:44:20
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tee 🌞 :
good :)
2026-09-30 12:48:04
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CHOCO :
Both genders are facing the backlash. It’s just about whose turn it is. It’ll spin back around for black women too. Just keep your head up. Your are loved🙌🏾
2026-09-29 17:16:13
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It’s RIQ Bitch! :
Black men are hard to love as a gay man who wants a black man my experiences with yall have been soooo abusive
2026-10-01 00:02:17
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Duck 313 :
I'm learning to shut up, and mind my business. even when I find her attractive I'll say my little one two.. and keep it moving.. I've stayed so isolated for so long, I don't even try no more.. and I'm all right with that.
2026-10-01 05:45:23
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Blazeyung93 :
these dudes that be on social media acting obnoxious, flexing their weapons, cash, and materialism and degrading our women are the ones that are making black men as a whole have our reputation put under the ground.
2026-10-01 03:16:43
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JoeBank912 :
We doing it all to ourselves
2026-09-30 21:53:02
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Blessed Queen :
Who told you that
2026-09-30 03:34:30
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CALEB🇰🇪🇳🇬 :
Gotta push thru
2026-10-02 15:46:26
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KitaB :
I agree & you all earned it.
2026-09-30 11:02:35
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Meer Lamar :
My mom was horrible to me too. But you know what? I sleep like a baby
2026-09-30 06:27:48
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ZenPapi :
speak for your self my boy im loved beyond expression, yall looking for love from the wrong source
2026-09-30 22:05:03
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Jess_Thuh_Mess :
theres literally a vid going viral rn showing black men and women speaking on each other and the men were saying all good things abt the women and the women were speaking negative
2026-09-29 21:16:11
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gm_2_the_hustlas :
But we hard to love
2026-10-01 00:14:22
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Andre :
we so damn stupid
2026-09-29 17:35:48
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Trist :
I seen the crazy double standards as a kid 😭, kept my distance since
2026-10-01 01:36:40
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