The data backs this: money is the #1 thing couples fight about, and roughly 1 in 3 admit to financial infidelity. Separate accounts plus one shared account is the setup that survives. What's your system?
2026-10-01 17:19:28
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Kathryn | Mindful Money Habits :
A perfect example of "yes, and." We do share a bank account ...AND have separate bank accounts 💁🏻♀️
2026-09-29 19:35:50
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Melissa Swingle :
We have a shared account AND we each have our own.
2026-09-29 23:54:05
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sarah26eg :
Together 25 years, married 15 and we have a shared bank account that pays our mortgage but our salaries go into our own individual bank accounts and we have our own separate savings accounts. Ladies, keep your money your own!
2026-10-01 02:31:34
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Krissy :
Share A bank account. Singular, maximum. Where household bills are paid from. No way in hell I’m ever sharing all of my money with ANYONE.
2026-09-29 18:43:53
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Awebb :
I’ve never understood the concept of people maintaining completely separate finances. It’s not your money or my money, it’s our money, used to pay our bills. We both have access to the bank account, we can both make purchases, we both have access to the credit cards…
2026-09-29 19:59:53
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there1snosp00n :
but why?
2026-09-29 19:50:28
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JP :
What she is saying is completely true. If you can’t be honest about spending then you shouldn’t be married.
2026-09-30 00:51:35
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KG20 :
Wait, tell me more! What SHOULD we do?! I hate having separate bank accounts for payments etc., but don’t want to fully combine either
2026-09-29 17:35:39
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carololson70 :
Nope. Did that first time round. Not in the 2nd.
2026-09-30 19:00:06
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Citygalsports :
We share one. And I have one. My husband doesn’t even have our joint account bank app on his phone 🤣
2026-09-30 02:49:50
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Felicia Quintana :
I’ll share a household account. That’s it.
2026-09-29 20:38:35
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KBS :
Been married 25+ years. We have never shared a bank account and I will never share a bank account
2026-09-29 20:37:46
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petseyeview :
You better have a prenup. [Red heart]
2026-09-29 19:08:43
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shaunadiane :
You absolutely can, you're right 👏👏👏 but you don't have to...or even need to
2026-09-29 20:03:01
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ParisButNotFrance :
Welp, there are no little genetic kids running around so I guess we’re good to keep keeping our money separate ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
2026-09-29 20:31:22
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A-list Mindset :
I think you DO share a bank account but also each have your own separate private account. It doesn’t hurt to have a shared acccount in addition to your own separate accounts. Does it? 😳 You supposedly love and trust each other right? Right?
2026-09-29 18:35:27
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lindan67icholas0 :
Honestly 🥰🇺🇸 you're the best Sophia, 💯😃💫
2026-09-29 19:31:00
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Diana Raymond :
😃 KEEP DOING GREAT 😃
❤️Sophia Ashford ❤️
2026-09-29 19:33:39
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lindan67icholas0 :
Honestly 🥰🇺🇸 you're the best Sophia, 💯😃💫 .
2026-09-29 19:31:06
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bassawesomeness :
we combined finances before we got married. she didn't have a bank account and needed a place to direct deposit her paychecks 🤷
2026-09-29 17:30:20
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omgholly :
Always share, you should be a team.
2026-09-30 05:11:45
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Ashley x Lands House & Home 💒 :
I’m honestly wondering if she didn’t mean men who just “give the wife allowance” and the women don’t have ANY access to finances. Obviously can’t confirm based on what she said. Either way— not good 😅😅😅
2026-10-01 10:05:19
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Simply.Hillary :
My husband puts his paycheck into my account lol
2026-09-30 14:38:35
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Digital Laura A :
we just never got around to it lol. but im the sole provider and I pay him a salary but we both have access to everything.
2026-09-30 13:38:27
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