@herfirst100k: never ever completely combine finances with a partner

Tori Dunlap — Money Expert
Tori Dunlap — Money Expert
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biztokk
BizTok :
The data backs this: money is the #1 thing couples fight about, and roughly 1 in 3 admit to financial infidelity. Separate accounts plus one shared account is the setup that survives. What's your system?
2026-10-01 17:19:28
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kathrynb3000
Kathryn | Mindful Money Habits :
A perfect example of "yes, and." We do share a bank account ...AND have separate bank accounts 💁🏻‍♀️
2026-09-29 19:35:50
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melissaswingle
Melissa Swingle :
We have a shared account AND we each have our own.
2026-09-29 23:54:05
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sarah26eg
sarah26eg :
Together 25 years, married 15 and we have a shared bank account that pays our mortgage but our salaries go into our own individual bank accounts and we have our own separate savings accounts. Ladies, keep your money your own!
2026-10-01 02:31:34
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neveralady
Krissy :
Share A bank account. Singular, maximum. Where household bills are paid from. No way in hell I’m ever sharing all of my money with ANYONE.
2026-09-29 18:43:53
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awebb84
Awebb :
I’ve never understood the concept of people maintaining completely separate finances. It’s not your money or my money, it’s our money, used to pay our bills. We both have access to the bank account, we can both make purchases, we both have access to the credit cards…
2026-09-29 19:59:53
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there1snosp00n
there1snosp00n :
but why?
2026-09-29 19:50:28
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justinperry725
JP :
What she is saying is completely true. If you can’t be honest about spending then you shouldn’t be married.
2026-09-30 00:51:35
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katrina103220
KG20 :
Wait, tell me more! What SHOULD we do?! I hate having separate bank accounts for payments etc., but don’t want to fully combine either
2026-09-29 17:35:39
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carololson70
carololson70 :
Nope. Did that first time round. Not in the 2nd.
2026-09-30 19:00:06
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citygalsports
Citygalsports :
We share one. And I have one. My husband doesn’t even have our joint account bank app on his phone 🤣
2026-09-30 02:49:50
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sellingcoloradohomes
Felicia Quintana :
I’ll share a household account. That’s it.
2026-09-29 20:38:35
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berswank
KBS :
Been married 25+ years. We have never shared a bank account and I will never share a bank account
2026-09-29 20:37:46
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petseyeview
petseyeview :
You better have a prenup. [Red heart]
2026-09-29 19:08:43
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shaunadiane
shaunadiane :
You absolutely can, you're right 👏👏👏 but you don't have to...or even need to
2026-09-29 20:03:01
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parisbutnotfrance
ParisButNotFrance :
Welp, there are no little genetic kids running around so I guess we’re good to keep keeping our money separate ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
2026-09-29 20:31:22
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alist.mindset
A-list Mindset :
I think you DO share a bank account but also each have your own separate private account. It doesn’t hurt to have a shared acccount in addition to your own separate accounts. Does it? 😳 You supposedly love and trust each other right? Right?
2026-09-29 18:35:27
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lindan67icholas0
lindan67icholas0 :
Honestly 🥰🇺🇸 you're the best Sophia, 💯😃💫
2026-09-29 19:31:00
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diana.raymond29
Diana Raymond :
😃 KEEP DOING GREAT 😃 ❤️Sophia Ashford ❤️
2026-09-29 19:33:39
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lindan67icholas0
lindan67icholas0 :
Honestly 🥰🇺🇸 you're the best Sophia, 💯😃💫 .
2026-09-29 19:31:06
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bassawesomeness
bassawesomeness :
we combined finances before we got married. she didn't have a bank account and needed a place to direct deposit her paychecks 🤷
2026-09-29 17:30:20
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omgholly1
omgholly :
Always share, you should be a team.
2026-09-30 05:11:45
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ashleymlands
Ashley x Lands House & Home 💒 :
I’m honestly wondering if she didn’t mean men who just “give the wife allowance” and the women don’t have ANY access to finances. Obviously can’t confirm based on what she said. Either way— not good 😅😅😅
2026-10-01 10:05:19
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simply.hillary
Simply.Hillary :
My husband puts his paycheck into my account lol
2026-09-30 14:38:35
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digitallauraanderson
Digital Laura A :
we just never got around to it lol. but im the sole provider and I pay him a salary but we both have access to everything.
2026-09-30 13:38:27
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