@iambreeharrison: There are so many various dynamics that are at play that are affecting relationships between Black men and Black women… especially for Black Americans. And if we’re going to heal, and come together, and improve our community, we’re going to have to address all of the pink elephants in the room… white supremacy, patriarchy, and capitalism has hurt us all. #BlackAmerican #GenerationalHealing #community
The fact that so many of us will blame black women or lgbt representation in media for our emasculation and not patriarchy/white supremacy frustrates tf outta me dude.
2026-09-30 17:07:09
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Quanito Brigante :
You’re spot on. EVERYBODY NEED TO READ ‘THE WILL TO CHANGE’ by BELL HOOKS… capitalism incentivizes individualism and hyper individualism is eroding the black community when we NEED to be communal today in 2026.
2026-09-30 16:37:14
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SheWasAFairy🧚🏽♀️ :
Been saying for a while black men left us behind for the patriarchy and while they were doing that we were educating and building ourselves that’s why we have made the strides we have as far as education, businesses ect.
2026-09-30 15:22:49
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public.0ffender :
They call the knowledge of our existence victim mentality it’s exhausting communicating with incompetent ppl
2026-09-30 04:02:30
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OrganicallyNe🌻 :
You’re exactly right. I was having a convo like this & started making historical references, & my brother said history is irrelevant…HUH?!
2026-09-30 15:59:56
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Personal Development Educator :
Healing individually is the first step to healing collectively.
2026-10-02 13:11:55
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Douva :
elitist for having intellect and and emotionsl maturity😂 people are crazy.
2026-09-30 14:50:09
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r :
Historical Context is everything!!!!
2026-09-29 22:26:43
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Bri | therapy & education | :
Andddd thats why EVERYONE needs to go to therapyyyy!!! Everyone thinks their so “self-aware” but I promiseeee you.. most people are not as aware as they thinkkkk!
2026-09-30 17:06:29
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Saint Mello :
People calling you elitist over this take is them telling on themselves
2026-09-30 15:46:05
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Flyy_Thingz :
bell hooks talks about a subject related to this called Rock My Soul. it discusses that after emancipation we did not focus on mental health and gaining self esteem.
2026-10-01 08:40:15
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Queen Regine :
You’re absolutely correct. I took a class in college called Relationships between black men & women and you basically summarized it all. People are not educated enough about our history and that alone keeps us behind…and yes it started at slavery
2026-10-01 14:55:11
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moe <3 :
no one understands historical context and how humans interact with history/human geography. it’s draining…
2026-09-30 20:15:21
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kiyonaandrews :
This is an awesome perspective and you are absolutely correct. The intersectionality of it all.
2026-10-02 12:01:13
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ugkgeek :
100% in agreement with everything you said 🔥
2026-09-30 01:11:34
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Know myself :
STOP focusing on the EXCEPTIONS!!!! In all thr ways. Average is normal.
2026-10-01 19:55:53
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Becca :
Preach I got called a woke Kesha chile
2026-10-01 05:13:33
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Black Doll :
They can call you whatever they want it wont change the fact your right.
2026-09-30 17:31:51
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Un.hinged :
That dynamic traces back to ⛓️⛓️💥. It was systematic and still harms our relationships,
2026-09-30 10:55:39
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lo.lo.writes :
“A system that goes against our natural way of being.” BINGO. We are out of nature.
2026-10-01 06:34:02
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CTRL + ALT + Ciara :
I pray this reaches the right eyes because you hit the nail on the head
2026-10-01 12:46:12
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trips_chips_dips :
100% agree, and yes, we have to start enthusiastically persuing a world we might not see. I believe the black women you're referencing are from the Louisiana slave community of the late 1700s to early 1800s. There's some dope books on it and the president of the heritage foundation did his dissertation on the topic. Which is diabolical in itself.
2026-09-30 02:08:57
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Rich :
It’s frustrating because they’re all focused on attraction and finances when in reality we are ALLLLLL oppressed and holding each other to white/euro standards. The ONLY way we can get outta this hole is TOGETHER! Not one person standing on the top looking down at the other after they have helped them get out that hole by putting them on their shoulders!!!!
2026-09-30 16:09:36
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Ms. Betty Rinn 🥣🩷 :
You must be in my mind 😭
2026-09-30 02:08:01
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