@beyond.driven: People rarely cheat for the reason everyone thinks they do. Most affairs aren’t just about sex. They’re often about what someone is experiencing through the other person. feeling wanted, seen, respected, desired, important, alive, or understood. That doesn’t excuse cheating. You’re still responsible for what you choose to do. But if you want to understand infidelity, don’t just ask: “Why did they want that person?” Ask: “Who did they get to feel like when they were with that person?” That question goes a whole lot deeper.

Derek Haluk🤘🏼 :

What about option 3 where your partner is hanging out the window flipping them off and yelling at the person that cut you off?

MICHAL PLIS :

I would definitely help co-regulate but unfortunately my entire adult life I've had no life partner.

ashb1122 :

😳😳😳 But what if I am partner 3 ? N I react like him 🤔🤔🤔

Judith Escobedo :

And that’s why two people need to be equally yoked .

𝕴𝖓𝖎𝖙𝖎𝖆𝖑 𝕽 🎶 :

The first one is narcissistic 😏

Shirley :

Some people lecture when you need a hug or a hand to hold!

legacy_steph :

Being partner 2 gets exhausting though especially when they’re constantly reactive.

Sincerely,Christie13 :

Keeping calm and in control of your emotions is a gift.

Escape from Lagos✈️ :

So true

3la :

I'm so tired to be the second type!!!!!

Augiem2178 :

Wow. He is so right.. My wife is the first way... I always said she never has my back.. The funny part is I would have her back even though she could be wrong.....

clnsbnc2019 :

We got cut off once in a residential area and my husband followed him, to his house, put the truck in park ON THE STREET and chased that guy to his front door leaving me in the truck. Long time ago and now if we see a bad driver, he gets out of the way-that’s it. Took TIME but, Neanderthals can change. lol

GATITA ❌💋🏳️‍🌈🇬🇹🇨🇦MEOW :

We own number one

MINDSET. :

life is perspective. and most situations don’t need a response. no response is a response.

LawKnut :

Wow! Well said

cabray2 :

So true

Emily 73 :

TRANSCENDENCE〽️💜TRENDSETTER :

Madz312 :

Yes

Dale Cooper :

"Partner 2" is like a Unicorn. Fellas... if you have one, don't ever let her go.

JT :

I’ve never once been with a gf/wife who shows up for me like #2. I guess there’s a reason why I’m still looking for that person.

JJEDR :

Sometimes I’m both of these as a wife

Augusto Duarte :

Perfectly said 💯🙏👍👌❤️

GodandTodd :

Ya but than does not co-regulation cause co-dependency? Or this only for men who aren’t there yet to help them through?

okelly1111 :

Yeah - so no. Recognizing your partner is a rage-aholic and doesn’t know how to regulate emotions is a thing.