@theyeshuani: #perfectionism #healing #selflovejourney

kennedy :

This is comforting because as soon as I dropped the persona of “having it all together” I became entirely a mess, a “failure”, confused as hell every day. It’s been like this for over a year and it’s so scary 🥺 I’ve just been practicing owning it and holding myself through it but honestly nothing has really “improved” I’ve just gotten more comfortable with being lost.

theresa⋆.☾⭒.˚♏︎ :

Oh ok yes here i go

fry my username :

nooo I'm scared =(

iamtreevor :

I'm gonna make a T-Shirt that says, 'Messy, Confused & Wrong' and wear it to work. I'll let you know how it goes...

ravensvalleyrising :

Oh my gosh, yes, this is so freaking real ✨🙏

ElizabethTess :

How do I become messy confused and wrong when I have 3 kids to “keep it together for”

Lost Kayaker :

Soooo on target...

Natacha Jonson :

Yeshuani I swear this happened to me and actually I spent years and years listening to the spiritual message that you have to be nice and that you have to be the bigger person so I was never able to set boundaries or decide this is not for me because I learned that I needed to understand others first or I needed to overcompensate and it took me so much time to understand it and change these recursions but I keep doing it !

Bee :

the problem used to be that I would put up with so much from toxic people because I was a people pleaser. the breakdowns used to be spectacular. not anymore since integrating my shadow and restricting my empathy/sympathy

Міла Таро :

That should be okay to fail let it be okay to misunderstood. Let it be okay to not having the need to explain yourself to somebody who did you wrong or you feel like it’s wrong because actually when people are doing something wrong they know what they’re doing.

MARAMA TUKU :

Agreed. Ive been working on this as of lately (no choice 😂😂). Is a big system - im open to unlearning 🙏

🌀Rio🌀 :

Thank you, I feel so called out. You’re right 🤣

Serina _AJS :

Accepting and allowing with ABSOLUTELY NO judgment those states/moments of being messy and wrong is sooo important. The freedom and ease of just letting my mind be what it is and simply observing has been so helpful and healing to my inner child, like yasss go crazy it's all fine

Fugoff :

I agree and see your point.... but life's obligations still hold true. Walking away from..... has consequences. Insert from.

Jīng :

I have been seeing this pattern for over a month now

Moongodess23 :

You have such an amazing mind Ty

douglasmackie860 :

Hah! Love this perspective !

لحظه جميله :

Thank you 🙏🏻

elone :

damn.

Ohheyjelly :

😳😳😳 Wow, thank you

gildedgoddess222 :

Sometimes self sabotage isn’t destruction, it’s actively repairing what’s not for you

charlesvance58 :

I am open to the fact that being noise blind can show up in other situations

MagnificentStarz :

mikeondrums13 :

MagnificentStarz :