@everythingerikar: Taylor Swift’s “I Was Patient Zero” might as well have been written about me. Every. Single. Word. I’ll be screaming this one at the top of my lungs through my windshield. 👏🏼 BUT HERE’S MY HOT TAKE… 🔥 What about the women who KNOW what a man has put his ex-wife through and STILL go to war defending him? The ones who believe every word he says, paint the ex-wife as the “crazy one,” and willingly participate in making her life miserable? Because respectfully, I don't want to help her. 🤷🏻♀️ There's a difference between a woman who doesn't know what she's walking into and one who's been shown the truth and chooses to become part of the problem. I survived it. I warned you. You chose your side. And I'm no longer responsible for saving anyone from the lessons they insist on learning themselves. So let's talk about it. 👀 Do we owe the new woman a warning when she's actively participated in hurting us? Or do we protect our peace and let her figure it out on her own? Sound off in the comments, because I KNOW I'm not the only one who feels this way. 💋 #PatientZero #TaylorSwift #DivorceTok #HealingOutLoud #ProtectYourPeace
