Candas Barnes
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Wednesday 30 September 2026 05:24:18 GMT
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sigma7 :
No but what if it isn’t over? I’ve gone from having a scary childhood to raising my parents to having disabled children that I have to fight every day for…alone, because the systems don’t do anything but cause further trauma and I have no village. I’m so desperate to move out of survival and I am doing so much work alone, but I feel like I actually do need people that care to be able to move out of survival.
2026-11-05 00:33:07
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Whit :
You my love, are an absolute angel! 😉 Thank you for sharing this inspirational message! I feel in my ❤️, it is time ✨🙌🏽🫶🏼✌🏽
2026-09-30 06:12:36
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Spellflinger1965 🇨🇦 :
The most powerfully thing my therapist said to me was that my mental health was not my fault but it was my responsibility.
2026-10-03 15:26:49
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Plant 🌱 More 🌲 Trees 🌳 :
So glad that I found your page! Thank you for sharing!
2026-09-30 05:37:44
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dlynnespeaks :
“Today, you get to be old enough to recognize that you don’t have to stay there anymore.” Sis!!!!! That part. Let me tell you how my life shifted when a speaker at a conference got up and said, “The life you have now is your fault.” She spoke for another hour after that first sentence, but I can’t recall anything else she said. It was all I needed. The shift began immediately.
2026-09-30 12:30:55
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DancingQUEEN40 :
Use your past to choose a better future.
2026-09-30 13:25:56
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The Encouragement Lighthouse :
Good word, Miss Candas. You can be informed by your past without letting it control and imprison you. Have an amazing day!
2026-09-30 13:14:31
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Gilda Zevallos71 :
Thank you! You are pure light and wisdom[Red heart]
2026-10-05 16:57:03
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lettykeran0 :
I actualy listened to the whole video,you realy bring a mesage home☺️Thank you💜
2026-09-30 07:05:35
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ONYILAURINE :
OH WOW ... THANKS ALOT MAAM THIS IS DEEP
2026-09-30 08:41:53
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Brittany Shannon Meadors :
Thank you for speaking to me
2026-09-30 10:25:30
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Mari 𖦹 Jíbara en Indiana :
Thanks, I needed to hear that.
2026-09-30 10:56:42
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NutrishZen :
I always look forward to your wise words! Thank you for another wonderful message.
2026-09-30 12:44:03
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thebestVenessa :
SO powerful, & SO true. I am actually attending a counseling session in a couple hours, to learn to forgive myself for putting people on a pedestal, & trusting people with my life that I did not realize did not deserve my trust.
2026-09-30 12:11:32
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Lety🎊 :
So much love!
2026-10-01 09:20:04
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Ray Arzate :
Thank you
2026-10-02 06:46:41
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SilverLocks 🇬🇧 🇰🇪 :
I needrf to hear my truth.
2026-09-30 12:55:09
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Frankie_Mack🇦🇺🏴 :
amen
2026-09-30 12:00:16
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Bliss Reflexology :
yes...
2026-09-30 07:51:16
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k.paige44 :
Beautiful.. thank you!
2026-10-02 11:56:02
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SandraMG2013 :
I know you give good hugs. This left me in tears. Thank you. [Heartwarming]
2026-10-28 01:34:38
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freedom :
Amen turn all of that trauma into your motivation to level up. I will not stay here. Refuse to let your circumstances dictate who you are and what you are worth. God validates your worth. God said you are fearfully and wonderfully made. Worthy of life exceedingly abundant.
2026-10-03 20:15:41
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hek :
love this lady and her advices
2026-10-01 05:07:28
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Elizabeth.Lolita.Princess :
Excuse is another, knowing my limits is the other. Just because it was happening in my past doesn’t mean the pain of not having a childhood can’t follow me through my adulthood.
2026-10-04 05:45:32
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mels_tiktok225 :
Respectfully- and I do mean that because I enjoy your work, I found my dad unalived when I was 23. Do I dwell on it? No. But I live in a constant state of fight or flight now. Very difficult to avoid that.
2026-10-01 09:52:57
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