@stellaabiodun_: Reciprocity isn’t about keeping score. It’s about knowing that the people you consistently pour into also care enough to pour back into you. You don’t need everyone to give you exactly what you give them. But with the people you’ve chosen to love, support and prioritise, the relationship should feel mutual. Because there’s a difference between giving without keeping score and constantly giving where nothing ever comes back.
Not everyone is a friend. Some are just classmates. Some are just colleagues. Some are just people you know. Let's stop overlabeling every connection as friendship. Friendship comes with trust, effort, and shared values, not just shared selfies or group works.
Be kind to everyone, but be wise with your labels. Cause not everyone who smiles at you, roots for you. And that's not bitterness. That's maturity.
2026-09-30 20:27:10
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Talk with Kiki :
They don't reciprocate and when you stop you become the bad person.
2026-09-30 09:54:12
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Sarima🎀 :
When they dont reciprocate, please take a step backwards
2026-09-30 19:43:36
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hassystiches 🧵💯❣️ :
Common sense is not common na y people no de reciprocate again .
2026-09-30 09:22:09
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Bethie_bakes01/cakes in ilorin :
And I thought I was crazy for thinking like this.
2026-09-30 11:07:17
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Omalicha :
I dey reciprocate especially positive once
2026-09-30 09:55:48
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amarajay🌹 :
Dey for who dey for you.
2026-09-30 10:27:25
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Eloho | Uni & Hostel Life 🎓 :
You just said my mentality out loud if you observe that it's not being reciprocated at the same level reduce yours and know where you stand in their lives 🥰
2026-09-30 10:02:17
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Joyce 💕 :
there must be reciprocation especially from the people you pour into 😌😌
2026-09-30 09:20:42
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Charlyy_D_BOOMER✅ :
Na wetin I still dey tell this babe this afternoon. Me I no really get time for nonsense
2026-09-30 12:00:28
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iam_yourkogiqueen🥺❤️✨ :
I tell him what I’m doing. Give him full details without him asking. Tell him where i’m going and when i want to leave. I tell him but this man won’t tell me where he’s going or else i call at that time and I ask him where he is.. He cancels plans on me without telling me why and i will never do that to him.. The list is long!!
2026-09-30 12:04:35
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Taofeek | Web Developer :
The craziest thing is that most of the people that don't reciprocate can't even handle when someone else does the same for them.
2026-09-30 13:53:39
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Simplyrenikeh :
Yesss. What do you mean I make all these effort for nothing. ❤️❤️❤️
2026-09-30 09:15:15
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Testy :
No overdo for anybody, anybody wey u wan over do for just know say for the sake of the love u have for them, if you are expecting things and u don’t later see it, you will be heartbroken, so no over do for anybody and who u go overdo for make sure na who get since to do the same for u but no expect sha because dem go shock you 📌😂
2026-09-30 10:55:27
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BigDaphny :
You’re smart ❤️❤️❤️
2026-09-30 09:15:04
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NAILPEDIXSTUDIO⭐️💅🏼 :
Exactly
2026-09-30 10:43:40
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Teniola⁷🖤💫💙 :
This Anty[Heartwarming][Heartwarming][Heartwarming]
2026-09-30 11:03:44
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♡iam_ayomikun_suzanne❥ :
Thisssss!
2026-09-30 14:17:01
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PearlieBookish :
let it be mutual!
2026-09-30 10:40:22
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P DOM T ☑️ :
Na God go bless you for me
2026-09-30 11:58:30
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JCNLuxe :
I understand you like mad
2026-09-30 16:09:02
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alligotoschool_01 :
Hmm 🤔 sis
2026-09-30 14:03:15
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shadow architect :
you have just cleared my mind
2026-09-30 11:38:46
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~Oluwafeyisara❤️~ :
When you meet them beyond their expectations, if they don't meet you half way......
Reduce it!!!!!!!!
2026-09-30 10:52:25
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