Meghan L. Dowling
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Wednesday 30 September 2026 14:33:29 GMT
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morgenpatterson :
Here’s a story about educating boys: when I was in law school, some of us would go to schools to teach kids about consent and about what the law in Canada says about consent. It was pretty basic - the message essentially being anything other than an enthusiastic yes should not be considered consent without further inquiry, and that women and girls do not invite sexual contact because of what they are wearing, where they are located, or because they are intoxicated - they are not responsible for being sexually assaulted. The kids for the most part were receptive, maybe a bit confused about why we were there, but I never got the sense that they were resistant to the message. The TEACHERS on the other hand… they either sat silently and refused to engage or aggressively pushed back, often arguing that girls DID in fact contribute to their own assaults by dressing *provocatively* or getting drunk and that they really should take more responsibility and not do these things if they didn’t want to be SA-ed. It was pretty eye-opening. Here we were trying to educate kids, which, according to the scolds, is what is needed, but when the actual educators undermine the message, it is abundantly clear that the issue isn’t lack of education, but rather the existence of a deeply entrenched r*pe culture that is perpetuated by people in positions of authority. Literally nothing has changed.
2026-09-30 19:23:40
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medicalmechanica :
its also the weird thought that girls/women dont get laughed at like we arent the butt of every joke ever.
2026-09-30 16:43:28
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MyCupOfTeaLCSW :
100%. I'm so tired of every time men are asked to self reflect and self correct they fall back on "just make me a list" - make me a list in how to be a functional adult, have empathy, talk to you "females" in a way that won't get me in trouble, to have healthy emotional expression, etc. I'm not making any lists. They've long had the lists and they don't care.
2026-09-30 14:59:27
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Just Me :
it's giving "if you just make me a list"...
2026-09-30 14:56:06
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Janea Greene :
I just want to say, whenever your videos pop up on my feed, I get a snack, refill my water bottle and lock the fuck in. Love your videos 👏👏👏👏 Also, raising 2 young adult men right now and we are having SO many convos. So many 🫠🫠🫠
2026-09-30 23:23:33
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Tess :
I’m exhausted, myself and my three daughters are Jane doe 😢😡😡😡😡
2026-10-02 11:21:08
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mbhenne929 :
Like a consent lesson will FIX IT ALLLLLLL
2026-09-30 16:26:58
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Ennas 🇩🇰🏳️🌈 :
Having women and other people doing the emotional work FOR them seems very on point. They know, they don't care.
2026-09-30 18:24:44
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Vintage Picnic :
Is it the girls calling him a pu**y? They're complaining about the rules THEY made
2026-10-18 02:06:43
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papercranestitches🇨🇦 :
The TikTok censors must be working overtime the last few weeks because I have had to actively seek out content from my fav feminist, social justice, and political content creators in order to see their Cornell 7 content. That's suspicious. That's weird.
2026-10-10 23:22:52
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Brian :
Watching this as a white male. I have two daughters. Just trying to be part of the solution. Thank you 🙏
2026-10-12 18:56:41
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Allison_Avery :
or draws a D on his forehead and leaves 😂 all jokes aside their worst case scenarios pale in comparison
2026-10-01 13:24:39
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Random :
As a man, I shouldn’t have to prove to women that I’m safe simply because I’m a man, just as, as a black man,I shouldn’t have to prove to white people that I’m one of the “good Black people” simply because I’m black
2026-10-01 09:27:00
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