Anna Kai
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Wednesday 30 September 2026 15:08:20 GMT
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minniepoppins24 :
As a postpartum doula/night nanny, ALL OF THIS!! The American version of motherhood is so stupidly isolating!! Postpartum moms are supposed to have people to help take care of them and their new babies!! Thank you for prioritizing your well being!
2026-10-18 22:14:44
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Sara M :
Survival is not fulfillment and there are no prizes for suffering.
2026-09-30 18:16:37
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Stephanie Herrera :
Heavy on the I don’t want to do everything
2026-10-18 20:58:18
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Kennedy Morgan :
Literally not having kids unless I can afford night nurse/nanny
2026-09-30 17:33:14
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Electricempress :
Can we get a hair tutorial
2026-10-17 14:35:34
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dreCos16 :
We can do it but we shouldn’t have to
2026-10-18 20:13:47
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Auntylee :
This account is so important to me😭♥️
2026-09-30 15:12:34
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rach_lomy :
“Survival is not the benchmark we should all be striving for” absolutely ate with that ✨
2026-09-30 18:12:31
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sciencespirithappy :
Outsourcing cooking and cleaning and life admin is also an option. I thought I’d want nannies but when it came down to hiring one, I didn’t. I found outsourcing all the other stuff was the way to making motherhood simple and easy for me.
2026-10-01 05:05:20
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Vaani💫 :
I’m literally only thriving and loving motherhood because I have the ability to outsource things to make my life easier like a cleaner etc, and I feel zero guilt about it!
2026-09-30 18:17:02
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little j :
My nanny is an angel on this earth!!!!
2026-09-30 15:57:44
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Monica :
Mind you this mother to martyr pipeline is something we've self-imposed in this country. Not like this at all in other cultures
2026-09-30 20:32:14
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Sarah :
And it's not only human help: its even about being able to afford conveniences such as food delivery, buying a nice stroller, swing, bouncer, bottle cleaner... Anything that makes life more convenient. You can also afford to have a second car so you can go out for your mental health when your husband is working, a house that can accommodate a room for you to sit with a crying baby and not wake the rest of the family... There are a whole host of things that would have made motherhood so much easier for me.
2026-09-30 18:41:48
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ItsEve :
I survived motherhood without external help and at the end my nervous system broke and I am now on antidepressants. The crazy thing is I could pay for help, but I just chose to play hero….
2026-09-30 18:51:51
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user2220456129427 :
The patriarchy conditioned society to believe that women are here to serve and fulfill others lives, that struggle makes us resilient, and silent competition for “ most sacrifice” is normal. When in reality, women thrive in community, women multiply what’s given, but women need rest and self fulfillment to be happy mother and raise happy kids.
2026-09-30 23:25:37
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lauren :
the societal expectation to mother in solitude is crazy to me. for thousands of years humans have mothered in community!! help should be seen as normal!!!
2026-09-30 16:09:01
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Middlebeet :
Money might not buy happiness, but it FOR SURE can make your life easier!!
2026-09-30 16:45:15
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Autumn :
Motherhood should never be the struggle Olympics. "I slept well last night" "Oh just you wait!" "For what? To have eye bags like you? No thanks"
2026-09-30 23:42:57
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idk :
I had my mum and MIL help with overnights and they literally saved my life. I am forever grateful for them.
2026-10-01 05:40:55
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A :
Amen. But also, what foundation are you wearing?!
2026-09-30 16:37:30
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Anonymous Ashley :
Having a house cleaner is life changing
2026-09-30 18:31:04
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justhere4shitsngiggles13 :
I've known since my 20s I have 0 interest in proving how resilient I am😂 if a night nurse and housekeeper can't be afforded for at least the 6 months I'm not interested
2026-09-30 18:16:31
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JORDAN 🤍 | Mom | Lifestyle :
I’m a 29 year old single mother with no help or support and I’m so desperate for relief. Every day is hard and a struggle. I’m having a hard time enjoying motherhood lately
2026-09-30 19:17:11
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user4959500301024 :
this is very important to me as a woman in her 30s considering motherhood
2026-09-30 15:35:09
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J9 :
The snoo saved my sanity. I would pay literally anything for it
2026-09-30 17:11:17
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