@hopeyoufindyourdad: Everyone is allowed to have personal preferences in relationships? But they’re personal for a reason #single #relationships

glitterscabs :

“Tall, jacked, six figures a year” are men’s standards for other men 🥴 not a single one of my girl friends nor I are dating someone who fits that description

ashbrea381 :

the thing is, dudes will date women who don't fit his preferences, then shame and abuse her for NOT fitting those preferences.

Y’all means all :

It’s more like ‘1. Mentally stable, 2. Emotionally stable, 3. Financially stable…’

vicks03035🇨🇦 :

It’s the shaming.. if you want to date someone skinny.. don’t talk to me, I’m not skinny, but why shame me for being fat? Like just leave me alone?

DuchessMeli :

6 feet and 6 figures are only spoken about by men. We don't care about that.

𝒜𝓊𝓉𝓊𝓂𝓃 :

i keep my preferences unreasonably high so i can stay single

Fcbrdugcccrtff :

Oh we have the same type 😍 Shane Gillis

StubbornScientist :

Income is not in my criteria. Height is not in my criteria. “Being jacked” is not in my criteria. Do men talk to women fr? I mean we know they don’t but still

Benny Reyna Jr :

I don't make 6 figures, I don't have a 6 pack. I am over 6 foot tall tho. And I have never had a problem getting a date. the value of a basic guy has never been higher.

Jenn :

“Allowed to” there’s the first problem

Nikki 🆘🇺🇸 :

Men care about looks women care about character personality integrity sense of humor we’re not the same

♬⋆.𝄞 Olivia♡Coryo 𝄞⋆ ݁♪ :

We have standards but a lot of men’s are unrealistic, when do most women say “jacked” I’ve heard more women say skinny and scrawny or chubby more than abs

CJ 11-27 :

I make 6 figures.. I want a man that makes 7 figures 😂

dont pick me :

Do you know how many chopped men I’ve dated and been obsessed with

fuchsialefae :

i think Tommy got told 'no' in some way or figured out the women he's been DMing aren't interested and took whatever is going on here to the internet.

TheAngriestDuckling 🇨🇦 :

I understand that there are women who want a 6ft, ripped man who earns 6 figures etc, but I'm curious about exactly how many of this type of women these men are meeting, they always talk like it's every single woman who wants that

Kelly WIlson :

We’re not looking for what he’s spewing. Emotional security, emotional maturity…a man that adds to our life, not makes it harder. They are just never going to get it.

JoselynRaeZ :

This is another man's standard not a women's

Daniel Torres :

He never mentioned personality for either side.

I don't care :

what they are missing is when they have preference they get mad from every women who dont match their preferences

navani_kholin :

Men really don't understand that they are OPTIONAL atp. So, if they want us to give up the peace and quiet life of a single woman, they better be offering something much better than what we already have. That's why we can have standards.

Bob69 :

Cassafrassalass :

Standards and preferences are two completely different things.

Plslevmealoneimtired🇨🇦 :

My standards aren’t too high, I meet them

Izzy 🇨🇦 :

The preference is not the problem...it's the putting down all women who don't fit that standard that's the problem