THEPUBLICOFFENDER
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Wednesday 30 September 2026 16:45:43 GMT
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peggiejoyce :
All men can be hard to love but when Black men are hard to love it hits us black women differently bc it feels like betrayal. We love y’all deeply but y’all don’t love us back.
2026-09-30 20:13:43
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Donesty :
Shid my son is 4 and he hard to love sometimes. If he was not my son I would not baby sit him 😂😂😂😂
2026-09-30 22:59:36
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theonlymoneeks_lv :
They are too busy listening to defend instead of listening to understand.
2026-09-30 19:14:42
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JustMeehRe1980 :
Far too many of us have the same stories. WE CANT ALL BE CHOOSING THE WRONG MEN EVERY TIME FOR GENERATIONS 🧘🏾♀️
2026-10-01 03:44:07
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Syxx Soleil 🖤🔱❤️🇺🇸 :
Most men don't want to be loved, they want to do be worshipped for existing
2026-10-01 21:11:08
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Z A R I :
Turn his mic up actually
2026-09-30 18:16:27
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King Ashley 👑🇺🇸 :
When yall are ready to talk about men not deserving of love call me
2026-09-30 18:54:27
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Lynn Marie :
Because with acknowledgement comes the need for change and change is work that most don't want to do. 🤷🏿♀️
2026-09-30 17:23:50
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DAWS_D :
Bro it’s not true what you’re saying
2026-09-30 18:08:07
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ZMarie :
A lot of them are walking around avoidant, unhealed, and unwilling. It’s very difficult.
2026-09-30 19:41:57
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rissachooses :
Gotta spend the whole relationship helpin him fight his demons and he LOSING 😂
2026-10-02 03:55:00
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LadyD✨ :
And the (few) black men that actually get it and treat women the way we want to be treated .. are called simps 😮💨🤦🏽♀️
2026-10-01 18:52:29
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Satori Siempre 🫦 :
I think one reason is because they value respect over love.. and they may not care about being lovable. Just my theory
2026-09-30 17:47:16
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Sarai :
So basically they need to stop listening to other men
2026-09-30 21:00:25
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QueenDeeTV :
The amount of times I’ve had men ghost me or be mean to me, just to try to come back years later and admit it’s because they caught feelings and couldn’t handle it 😭 it’s insane “logic”!
2026-09-30 21:01:34
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Queen.B🐝 :
OK, you can have a podcast
2026-09-30 20:28:39
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𓃵 :
and then the villainization of femininity in male spaces slowly conditions men into despising femininity, even in women
2026-09-30 19:32:10
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Shay | Runner + Lifter :
It's the lack of accountability! It's always someone else's fault that they are the way they are 😭
2026-10-01 10:27:01
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Pamelaleetvee :
Ladies just love yourself and Jesus 💕 cause atp …..
2026-10-01 16:24:30
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Beautyforeveeee :
They are too busy listening to defend instead of listening to understand.
2026-10-01 02:46:29
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Talicia 🩷 :
When that lady spoke she was talking to us blk people it was a conversation for us. But now women of different races are sharing their experiences with blk love. Us making this about all men all races is shifting i believe, we not worried about the white man when it comes to love. We are speaking on our community because blk women are worried saddened abandoned muted. In discussing what we fought to even discuss AT PEACE. We know all men can be hard to love but we want blk love so we are focusing on change with US FIRST. I agree with everything you said
2026-09-30 17:58:19
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theekendallmariee :
Thank you for your service sir
2026-09-30 21:11:03
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AOA!! :
Yes, they are hard to love. family, friends, relationships, etc. that's why I can't stand when they say it's the men we choose. which tells me they really don't care about BW and aren't listening when we say, it's also our fathers, Doctors, the corner store dude, etc.
2026-09-30 21:55:49
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jrayyy :
Oooo “you don’t even like talking to men” was a bar. So damn true
2026-09-30 20:01:09
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Lifeisgoodwilson :
Spot on. I suggested to my boyfriend that he needed friends to chop things up with and he said nope. He said he can’t trust them so if isn’t about sports he wouldn’t discuss anything. That made sense as so why he is so bottled up.
2026-10-01 01:39:39
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