@authentic_nursenoah: As @Scott D Henry said MEN ARE THE PROBLEM #women #cornell #womenshealth #consent #BookTok

ShellyE77 :

A therapist (woman!) once asked me why I valued myself so little to put myself in a situation to be SA’d at gunpoint. And for decades I thought it was my fault. This society makes victims think it’s their fault. Such bullshit!

Christina Marie :

One of my favorite quotes “it’s a dress not a yes”

Deana Worel :

I almost got a ticket because we were at a river and my 4 year old daughter was just wearing shorts. The cop said my daughter had to wear a shirt because it was indecent exposure. I asked him why he was sexualizing my 4 year old daughter. He sputtered and started to get aggressive. I just asked for his sergeant

jumpie8 🇨🇦 :

Thank you

VeryNice…orNOT🐉🐲🐉 :

dustyrose1995 :

LOUDER FOR THE ONES IN THE BACK!! If you think its okay, YOU ARE APART OF THE PROBLEM!!

Houda Farhat :

I totally agree with you. But this is not the case in real life , the victim is often blamed unfortunately.❤️

.meagan__ :

THANK YOU! I was wearing a hoodie and jeans. I was 14 yrs old. I never reported it because of the horror stories I heard of girls not being believed. I also knew my father would not believe me and would have blamed me and called me horrible names. I didn’t tell anyone for almost 20 yrs. It’s been almost 32 years and I can still tell you every detail, right down to the shoes he was wearing. I will always share my story now so girls and women know they are not alone and they should NEVER feel shame or guilt.

Raccoon :

a hug is consent for the hug. flirting is consent to flirting. not touching.

Kage :

the most recent time...I was laying in my own bed, in my own home, trying not to vomit because I was so sick from a sinus infection, my son was less than an arms length away sleeping and my daughter was awake on the other side of an unlocked door. its never what the victim has done, said, worn, been, or been around. it is always the action of the rapist.

jessicah1303 :

They can even start to “fool around” and she can change her mind!!! She doesn’t owe you anything, especially not an explanation.

Bernadette :

You are a hero, sir. Thank you!

sherriekizer289 :

Thank you for being such a great ally for women!! ❤️

Rose ❌ :

Octobersky74 :

People need to go watch the movie “Accused” with Jodie Foster. It’s loosely based off of true life events from 1983.

hq41 :

👏👏Say it louder!!!! Transfer victim shaming to perpetrator blaming. Love ya!

Kimberly Marlow :

The rapist is the person who needs to control themself. We needs to change. Not the mini skirt or the walking late at night, etc.

Kylie 💙 :

Thank you so much for using your platform for such important things. Thank you for standing up for women. 💖

BostonsOwn🍩McDonuts🍩 :

Thank you friend 💛

JezzaBell045🇨🇦 :

love you more for this. 💚

Rayne :

I have been married for 15 years. YEARS. and my partner still explicitly asks consent regularly. I hate clothes, and I will give him a hug and his hands stay in appropriate places even with me fully nude. It's really not hard

c :

I don’t tend to agree with men on this app, so when I do, I always check out their profile to make sure. Turns out I already follow you, so I must have agreed with you more than once! Thank you for being a man that will say the things that men need to hear. They don’t listen when women say it.

Teresa :

PREACH!!!!!

Donna Nichols :

100%! It's time to stop the victim shaming and put the focus back on the perpetrator.

carolbelk660 :

Absolutely correct!