@jadastoptopsecret:

lola :

My therapist told me that lots of the time when people date we assume we have to become one, however, a real relationship is a relationship where each person lives their lives and meet at some point. The couple is not supposed to be one and only life. It’s two separated life that cross paths when needed

Hail3yw0lt3rs :

I yearn for this, I can’t stand a man that relies on me so he can function

every2secondsijustdeysayomo💔 :

I’m finally in my healthy relationship guyss

Loading…🦅🏎️💰 :

THIS. I live by this. I feel the love you receive from someone who knows how to be alone is the purest form of love that could ever come your way. A solitary soul loves you out of choice not out of need of company so you know it’s always genuine.

telen :

yes, you don’t need to text/call each other 24/7 nor depend on them for ur happiness. ur #1 priority is to always make time for yourself bc at the end of the day you’ll always have yourself 🤷🏻‍♀️don’t lose yourself because of ur significant other!!!!!!!!

S :

I hate being too dependent on someone just because I love them I cling too much but then when I realize I’m the one who is available all the time I distance myself and I feel numb towards them there’s no in between honestly

yafavluvergurl :

Perfectly said

Hndrxx :

Exactly. I should be happy, just as you should be. Then together we unite, share and increase that happiness into long term Joy.

𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐲𝐚𝐡 :

js got askedddd 🥹

_HER_ :

I’ve been trying to say this I just didn’t have the words so thank you.

finn :

i can last by myself until im with someone idk why

Ca🏍️ :

why'd I read it as two men 😭

sofia :

going through this right now, I used to see my boyfriend all the time, but he actually got into a car accident thankfully he’s OK but he’s just fixing his car so unfortunately, we can’t see each other every day like that until he gets his car fixed at least we see each other on the weekends, but this can get me used on missing him in a unhealthy way

ogewen :

I know that in my head well, like freaking so well, but my heart says that I need him to need me as much as I need him

crockettuna :

Stunning 🥰🥰🥰🥰

aliᖭི༏ᖫྀ :

ok but how do i learn to be okay on my own with her, she’s all i’ve known since 13

Linis :

true, a relationship its a bonus not an important piece of a jigsaw

Idekatp :

currently learning to face that now. Got into a bad habit of hookups. But now I know im better than that. And until I can build my a friend group, have support, and be okay on my own. I’ll stay by myself and be the best version of myself 🩷

Yara. :

imo, relationships are supposed to be a bonus in life not a purpose. your sole purpose is to better yourself. i ain't completing anyone. i ain't fixing anything. we are not broken puzzles--but two wholes choosing to be together. i'm not out here looking for "other half" bs. i either find that 'whole' person whom i can live with or i live with my whole self—whichever is good btw.

isa ★ :

pense num ngc difícil de achar é homem resolvido

Moon🌙 :

As someone who is NOT okay on her own, yes lmao- do not get in a relationship if it’ll consume you, it’s so horrid

champagnemami :

learned this the hard way

👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩 :

this is all i ask for

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mar🃏 :