@coach_marielle: Patriarchy became most powerful when women started measuring their worth by how well they could serve everyone but themselves. Be chosen. Be agreeable. Be nurturing. Keep the relationship together. Carry the emotional load. Sacrifice without keeping score—and call the exhaustion “love.” Deconditioning begins when a woman realizes being chosen was never the prize if receiving the role required abandoning herself. You are allowed to build a life where love does not require servitude and partnership does not require self-erasure. #DivineFeminine #Deconstruction #Patriarchy #CycleBreaker #womenhealing
😂The way every man says am not a wife material.....am so happy!
2026-10-01 06:23:59
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Ashley :
Patriarchy has also convinced people that men should be the providers.
2026-10-01 17:46:28
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Lynden :
and it convinced us that cows produce milk because they’re cows but in reality it’s because we exploit their motherhood and female reproductive organs
2026-09-30 23:42:34
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niiiina :
me serving men
2026-09-30 20:40:25
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Nicole ❤️😍🎊 :
This !! The desire to be chosen is keeping a lot of women in toxic situations
2026-09-30 21:36:48
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🌸ayah🌺 :
Im here to serve
2026-10-01 10:20:05
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titilai_lai :
I read about dna yesterday and I have never been angrier. So a child carries more of the mother’s dna than the dad. But still somehow the child is suppose to bear the father’s surname? Clowns
2026-10-01 07:22:10
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J Marina :
Serving your own creation, beats me
2026-10-01 08:30:19
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yosnflower :
Religion reinforces this. 😭😭 When will women be free?
2026-10-01 03:53:51
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Ppaper B :
So who told men they have to slave away their entire lives providing and protecting women 🤔
2026-10-01 10:09:31
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VeeRozmaryNowski :
Men are underhated
2026-10-02 09:18:00
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Nih'rina Rose :
and told us being chosen by a man is the goal.. then we were chosen by abusers, manipulators, cheaters ect... at 40, I don't want a man in my house... we can have fun outside but I'm not serving you, Sir
2026-10-01 15:19:55
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Lad.ostudio :
Apparently we are someone's imaginary missing rib🤣
2026-10-01 07:16:34
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love 😍 :
good morning y'all,am never getting married or having any child thank u
2026-10-01 07:36:47
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Dave Wanyama :
did the cavemen and early humans have patriarchy?
2026-10-25 13:26:01
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🇰🇪Tluv🇹🇭 :
How I wish women would realise this especially here in Africa
2026-10-02 05:34:01
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User000000000023455 :
They even print it in bold in their wedding ceremony “ A PROMISE KEPT” like girl whaaat?
2026-10-01 05:24:10
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Pinky(KM-Style)🌻 :
for example look at our old mothers. you can go to school , graduate , buy a car and a house but if u dnt hv a husband or kids they think u lack. lol
2026-10-02 03:31:36
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yhu sana :
whatever men don't like, I'm exactly that and more even
2026-10-01 07:33:20
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hellen cargwiria👯👯 :
they even serve with their own money
2026-10-01 09:29:40
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𝑴𝒊𝒏𝒂 :
Im honestly tired of this. Women aren’t you tired!? Why not choose what work for you and move on?
2026-10-02 06:02:53
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goldencourtyardtv :
That’s why many woman see marriage as an accomplishment
2026-09-30 22:59:51
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Nasra✌️🕊️❤️ :
I always make sure and confirm that am not a wife material
2026-10-01 16:59:17
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Onyinyedike :
And all men know this
2026-10-01 03:26:08
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