Lawyer here 🙋🏽♀️. ATTENTION SAHMs/Trad wives, come to the front! Listen up! Don’t believe shit your soon-to-be-ex-husband says. You.are.no.longer.playing.on.the.same.team!! As SOON as that MF leaves, hire an attorney to send him a certified letter instructing him to preserve all assets accumulated during the marriage (bank accounts, retirement accounts, investments accounts, property, etc.). YOUR ATTORNEY IS PAID FROM YOUR JOINT ASSETS!!! Men don’t leave to go live in a studio apartment alone eating TV dinners. There is another woman on the scene who has likely been there for a long time. She is not going to agree to him paying you a year of alimony, without a court order. He is using marital assets to court the new woman and to provide for their life together. ALSO, if you learn there is in fact another woman, SUE ASS TOO for alienation of affection and to recover some of your marital assets. In some states, this is perfectly legal and a recognized legal cause of action. You’re welcome. And lady, sending you all the best!
2026-10-01 00:10:44
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KrysScrib :
You are entitled to half his retirement. Lawyer up girl!
2026-09-30 23:41:35
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ccrivergirl :
LADIES, do not be a trad wife!!! They always leave!!!!
2026-10-01 00:56:07
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Susan H :
If they can feed you they can starve you
2026-10-01 21:47:58
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user_4895258953 :
See ladies that is why we work!
2026-10-01 00:09:41
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Idahome Kate :
You need a lawyer, not a third job.
2026-09-30 23:11:48
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Patti Reyes :
I had to look up the meaning of trad wife. I pray things only get better from here!!
2026-10-01 02:44:27
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Ableib :
Married 30 years- you should get 1/2 of everything including his retirement.
2026-09-30 23:40:32
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dustcovers :
It’s called abandonment. Go get a lawyer now.
2026-10-01 00:09:34
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sylviastokes992 :
Girl get an attorney now
2026-09-30 23:17:59
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Monica :
30 years married? Girl there should be alimony. File immediately and get a temporary order in place. Prove he left and all charges are his and he will be responsible.
2026-09-30 23:17:06
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leslienobles235 :
He can’t decide that he doesn’t owe anything. There are laws, you need a lawyer, and you need to be legally separated to protect your financial well-being at this point, and his wages can be garnished he owes you money.
2026-09-30 23:32:40
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Trista Snider :
I left my abusive ex husband 3 years ago, divorce finalized only last summer. My 3 kids and I started over with nothing. It's hard, but it lets up sometimes. We just keep fighting because us and our kids are worth the fight ❤️
2026-10-06 16:18:21
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Mikelle :
LAWYER! LAWYER! LAWYER! For anyone else reading this: if he leaves, you get a lawyer, that afternoon. Do not wait. (Advice from someone who’s survived it)
2026-10-01 12:41:22
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Julie🐾 :
God bless you beautiful woman! You r doing great! Keep up the work!
2026-10-06 16:16:49
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pjwheeler80 :
You are clearly an intelligent and determined woman. Move to a smaller home, explain the situation to your kids and let them know they’re gonna have to figure some things out if he was paying for their college, get a lawyer. This is YOUR time to discover who you are and create a live you genuinely enjoy living. Embrace it. You got this! (But absolutely lawyer up and take him for all you deserve).
2026-10-06 16:18:34
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Susie Baker566 :
I’m praying your days get better ❤️🩹
2026-10-06 16:15:39
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jeremeyjackson997 :
Man here, I’m starting to hate men too. 🤦🏾♂️Best wishes❤️🩹
2026-10-01 14:16:22
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big__chillin :
fill this jar with love everyone
2026-10-02 12:26:47
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Jenny Marie :
My dad did this after 20 years with my mom. I was in college, my sister was in high school. Stopped paying all bills, maxed out everything and filed for bankruptcy. He literally just left us and we had to move to a new state to live with family. Then, just a couple months ago, my step dad (who I called my dad), did the same thing after like 15 years and just abandoned us all. Wants nothing to do with the grandkids who are named after him who have known him their whole lives. What is wrong with men? Its insane.
2026-10-02 14:37:35
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Donna Oxoxo :
A lawyer and a forensic accountant can work JESUS miracles. Get one. Yesterday.
2026-10-01 02:21:43
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nataliereneeana :
The man you marry is never the man you divorce. They become evil evil evil.
2026-10-02 12:40:11
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E’sNextChapter💙 :
What dosage of Lexapro are you on?
2026-10-01 03:09:59
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AutisME :
Please, ladies, listen to this woman. Never EVER live in financial dependence on a man. Never. Don’t do it. Marry men, if you absolutely must, but for Pete’s sake keep your independence. Financially, emotionally. Always.
2026-10-02 06:27:14
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