@thejohannaesther: Dating is a beautiful opportunity to discern whether someone has the character to build a life with you. And one thing you should pay close attention to is how they respond when their desires meet your boundaries.🤝🏽 Can they honor your decision to wait until marriage without pressuring, guilt tripping or manipulating you? This goes for BOTH men and women. Marriage vows say “in sickness and in health.” There may be seasons when illness, recovery or other circumstances make sexual intimacy impossible. You need a partner who understands that faithfulness remains their responsibility even when their desires cannot be fulfilled. Waiting doesn’t guarantee fidelity, and having sex while dating doesn’t automatically mean someone will cheat. But someone refusing to respect your boundaries gives you meaningful information about their self-control and character. Take time to know their family, history, values and patterns. Observe how they handle disappointment, accountability and being told “no.” A wedding does not magically produce discipline. Look for evidence of the character you’re trusting before you make the covenant. “Whoever is faithful in very little is also faithful in much.” — Luke 16:10 Sis…Bro don’t just ask whether they want you. Ask whether they can honor you! I love you, but Jesus Christ loves you so much more than me. Trust me!🤍 Stay blessed!💕 #fyp #explore #thejohannaesther
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flavorfaveee :
Literally . A man who does not love God , cannot properly love a woman !!! Loving God = righteousness
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emjaycee :
“I’m not free, I make myself available” is absolutely amazing. Thank you. 💗
2026-10-01 01:28:04
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Annie💕✨ :
I want to remain this side of TikTok
2026-10-01 00:33:11
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shadesofshayla :
Self control in sex and finances. So important.
2026-10-01 02:39:12
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K A T :
I’ve been celibate almost 5 years. I’m never going back! Jesus before ANYTHING
2026-10-01 01:56:57
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mizzchriss :
and the fruit of the Spiirt is...Self Control 🥰
2026-10-01 00:45:11
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B|THEE OHIO HAIRSTYLIST :
Leaning in for a kiss after me telling you I don’t believe in secX before marriage would have sent me into oblivion
2026-10-01 10:28:29
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Tam.Tam :
He LEANED FOR A KISSSSSSS AFTER ALLLLLL THAT YOU SAID KERRRTTTT MAN
2026-10-01 00:39:04
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Mizzg00dwrench :
Teaching my nieces this
2026-10-01 01:26:19
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Sofari Ling :
Deep & beautifully said!
2026-09-30 23:21:54
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YOUR MOM :
taking notes for my next date
2026-10-01 03:24:16
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flo0ow :
lust is a lack of self control.
2026-10-01 13:49:08
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𝕯𝐲𝐲 🌀‼️ :
The boundaries part in The Peace You Keep Givng Away helped me a lot I thought boundaries would push people away but I started realizing how much resentment I was building without them.
2026-10-03 12:58:16
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Niyah | Shop bundles & wigs :
May your life continue to flourish and prosper 🥹❤️
2026-10-08 15:49:48
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Delaney :
Can I get an AMENNNNNNN
2026-10-09 00:44:58
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[chosenfrvr] :
Great work 💯
2026-10-08 22:11:49
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lifeinmotion_anj :
Beautifully explained. 💕
2026-10-08 22:25:59
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shaw shaw :
So good!!
2026-10-08 19:13:03
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jaz👑 :
girl this happened to me recently. he seemed like a nice guy, but sex while bf/gf is a no go for me. period.
2026-10-01 02:49:50
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Sandrine :
I wanna on this side of the tok
2026-10-01 03:19:43
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𝒴𝓊𝓁𝒾𝒶 :
This is the kind of woman i want to surround myself with while growing up into adulthood
2026-10-01 15:47:45
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Zhentanya 🇯🇲 :
I stopped dating this guy who said he is “willing” to wait until marriage if that’s what I want, but I don’t want someone who’s willing. I want someone who wants to wait too. I don’t want a man growing resentment towards me because I didn’t want to have sex with him before the marriage…
2026-10-01 15:54:01
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Casper👻 :
Ouu girl I just followed you I need you on my feed!!!!
2026-10-08 01:23:58
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𝘊𝘢𝘳𝘮𝘦𝘯🤍 :
Proud to say I married a man like this!!!! Yessss ma’am!!!
2026-10-01 02:06:37
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Amór :
Dude told me he loved everything about me but couldn’t go further until he had a “test drive”… Homie was in MINISTRY with a TITLE!! I chumped him off sooooo bad and told him take care 😂😂😂 FOH
2026-10-01 01:03:44
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