@modamensch: you are not a "good man" if you are silent in situations of abuse and complicit in misogynistic behavior. stand up, man up, and call out your friends for their sexist attitudes. allyship is not a status you magically receive for not assaulting women. just one of many examples of the ways that all men benefit from rape culture. #cornell #cornell7 #feminism #socialcommentary #currentevents
i used to make jokes like that until it got explained to me why it affected peoplz the way it did (i was young and stupid) but i have been trying my damn hardest to be as far from that person as i can be.
2026-09-30 22:26:16
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Mocomtman :
I don't get to make the determination if I am a good man. That is up to the people around me.
2026-10-01 00:41:26
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finalstarmanND :
I'm an "afraid" man 😭 I barely ever make the first move
2026-09-30 23:34:36
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CapStri :
thank you speaking on this! change doesnt happen until everyone gets with it. As a man, Ive been SA as a young boy. SA jokes were never funny, and it pains me to this day
2026-09-30 23:34:04
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HR :
We are told what makes a good man is someone who protects women. From what? Other men I’m fucking tired
2026-10-01 00:07:37
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Feral :
If good men existed, bad men wouldn’t.
2026-10-01 02:33:07
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FlexxLuthor🇺🇸 :
honestly the rape jokes should be a major red flag for any potential friendship. like what's the punch line....?
2026-10-01 14:46:41
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astro.wav0🎶🏳️🌈▶️🩶💜🩶 :
I strive to be better and to keep learning to be better
2026-10-01 03:15:19
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Stela :
They just don’t know when they are harassing someone
2026-10-01 13:06:20
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dripman :
What are these charts measured with? Authors tolerance?
2026-10-01 14:43:18
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༺ ℰ𝔯𝔦𝔢 ℌ𝔦𝔫𝔨𝔩𝔢 ༻ :
Every good man I know believes they could be a better man. Every mediocre or terrible man ive met believes they’re a good/nice guy.
2026-10-01 12:40:22
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Justina :
Mine was the other way around. He was a “good man” and called out shitty men while sexually assaulting me at home.
2026-10-01 02:16:48
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top10larper4773 :
as a trans woman i have been on both sides. it was never explained to me that being neutral is normalizing the behavior and living as a woman opened my eyes to that but they won't know until we tell them. so please keep talking and know that you are helping so much.
2026-09-30 23:49:07
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axel_jordan761 :
Reposting for the other men who still actively indulge in the pyramid of horror
2026-09-30 23:15:43
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helenisfunny :
At least 90% of the male comedians I've dealt with over the last decade. The other 10% are the bad men
2026-10-01 11:38:56
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kamil :
not that I disagree but it's difficult without knowledge of how to effectively intervene to know exactly what to do in a lot of these situations where it's verbal harassment but it seems the aggressor might be willing to become physically violent. And any institutional training available to the general public would overemphasize the safety of the person intervening even if being a decent person in that case means taking on some risk of being assaulted yourself.
2026-09-30 23:42:41
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appleuser4582790 :
What did the guys in the GC do wrong? They said the woman was consenting
2026-10-01 05:26:28
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BoTheJo :
great post
2026-10-01 00:52:40
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fluidbi23 :
The I used the chart you showed to be like "Am I bad? Am I bad?" Thankful I didn't apply to any of them
2026-09-30 22:41:29
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Manuel Jose151 :
Lo mas triste es pensar que haya personas que consideren ser “buena persona” sea hombre, mujer, perro, planta, como algo de mérito y no el principio básico y elemental que debería estar bien metida en la cabeza de cada persona. Es como “es que yo trato bien a las mujeres” … pues ajá, se supone que eso es lo lógico, no?
2026-10-01 14:19:05
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Mal-Uh-Kye :
Fuck it, Just call ALL men Rapists at this point. We're all “enablers” anyway.
2026-10-01 04:27:52
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🎧Ryan🎵 :
My ex who coerced me and put his hands on me both during sex and not, when he broke up with me he said he hoped he showed me what a good relationship was 🥴🥴🥴🥴 these men are DELUSIONAL
2026-10-01 01:02:36
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Angel Boy :
something i see a lot is
"well i dont do that!" Oh wow do you want a damn cookie for FOLLOWING THE FUCKING LAW?!
2026-09-30 22:57:24
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Serena N2D | Gaming & Anime :
You remember the trend of men uppercutting women if they say no to a proposal?
2026-10-01 00:18:06
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Dartholomew :
I lost most of my social circle serving as a witness in a title IX case against another man who was a (former) friend. If you aren’t willing to burn it all down, you’re not doing enough. Too many people stay silent
2026-10-01 00:45:45
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