@notasweplanned_podcast: “I am the other woman.” This week’s dilemma comes from the side we don’t often hear from… she fell in love with a married man. But does knowing he’s married change everything? #NotAsWePlanned #TheOtherWoman #Affair #RelationshipDilemma #Podcast

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daniellegoodyear
Danielle Goodyear :
Leave the job and block him
2026-10-01 08:10:22
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mini_shades
MINI SHADES By Mehek :
HOWWW and WHYY do people put themselves into this 😩😩😩🤢
2026-10-01 09:45:17
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lillyandcece67
Rays ❤️ :
You HAVE to find another job, let him crack on with someone else, and he will!!
2026-10-01 15:56:40
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mumofboyshp
Katy Evans :
100% find a new job. this man wont bring yoy happiness. he will just eventually hurt you snd his current GF and ruin a family. be the bigger person. find a new job and dont be the reason for another woman's heart to break! girl code always!
2026-10-01 09:26:14
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snakeeyesman
snakeeyes :
it's just a bit of fun, what's the problem?
2026-10-01 12:42:47
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tiktoktoktik321123
Abbey :
Knew it was wrong but still done it for a year??? OKKKkK 🥱 yawnnnnn
2026-10-01 11:15:05
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don37077
Don :
oh I'm listening and damn straight I'm fucking judging
2026-10-01 11:36:51
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sian_butler
Sian 🖤 :
Tell him no and it’s wrong! Have more self respect and remember how you would feel if the shoe was on the other foot!
2026-10-01 10:17:36
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lairy8
Clare :
no morals
2026-10-01 19:20:40
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nickigeorgiou
nicki georgiou :
She should tell the wife 100%
2026-10-01 11:27:28
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shellbell_3108
bear the poochon :
at least she can take accountability. please stay away from him. its the kids. I have a friend who is happened to and her kids are heartbroken 😭
2026-10-01 12:40:11
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roamingwithmygirls
roamingwithmygirls :
I hope his wife finds out, she deserves better. Block him, he deserves to be alone!
2026-10-01 18:34:56
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user1481612258871
Lesley Scott :
another job
2026-10-02 15:31:57
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user1111138082786
user1111138082786 :
😁😁😁
2026-10-01 08:33:09
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ian.wilson107
Ian Wilson :
😂😂😂
2026-10-02 08:15:19
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When you see someone who is always calm, always kind, and always avoiding conflict — be careful how you treat them. Don't mistake their silence for blindness. Don't mistake their kindness for weakness. People like that notice everything. They notice when your tone changes. They notice when you lie. They notice when you take them for granted, when you only come close when you need something. They notice the little disrespects you think they didn't see. They just choose not to react. Not because they don't feel it, but because they understand that not every battle is worth fighting. They would rather keep peace than prove a point. In relationships, these are the ones who forgive too much. Who say
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