@sheena.tiktok76: Check on your strong friend too. The one who says “I’m fine.” The one who keeps functioning. The one who never asks for help. Sometimes she’s the one who needs you most. ❤️ #womenfriendships #womenfriends #womenfriends

NardiBomb :

spot on

KimbaKimball :

I am currently undergoing treatment for cancer and still have a long way to go. Literally no one offers to do anything specific! I even have an app to ask people to help with things and it ends up being one of my sisters or no one. It sucks!

kirstyreeves260 :

when my dad died my girlfriends send a food service, when i divorced my husband they came over & folded clothes & made food - if they asked i would have said i was fine - if that’s your true friend show up & do the dishes, fold some clothes or clean the floor- it will 💯 need doing & she will ever ask

alexandrarussell95 :

My bestie is going through a hard time and she’s so strong, but so am I so we check on each other but I do wonder if we spiral each other down sometimes without intending to! I think it’s menopause hitting, feels like a mid life crisis and both of us want to walk away from our marriages as we feel stuck. We love them but now want something else, but our children come first and we’re both hoping it’s just a phase.

Faye_H :

This literally happened to me today. I’m seeing my friend tomorrow. I organised it 🥰

💖💖 :

I actually did that, when I was struggling with depression (still struggling). told my best friend I was struggling with it and only thing I needed was for her to check up on me casually, not that I needed her to call everyday. she has her own life but like casually. to be honest that haven't happened at all and our meeting became less then before. 💔

Hibiscus 75 :

Also, if they do ask for something, for the love of all things beautiful DO IT (or decline immediately). Now is not the time to be saying ‘sure, we could do that’ and not show up.

PureMagic :

So glad I came across ur post. Am going to do this ❤️

Natalya Bran :

Indeed, just do things

Louise Burgin 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿✨ :

Set the appointment

Gourmadela :

Agreed but can we talk about your GLAM 😍

XHasnaX :

❤️❤️❤️love it

user635785953232 :

Correct

Hilary :

Colin. :

Well expressed

Jozie D :

Yes! Worst thing to say! Just get off your ass and do something!

Meja727 :

👏👏👏

Neena Ramgopal :

💯

owly gail :

🥰🥰

wpav :

👍👍👍

vashyogs :

💯💯💯💯💯💯

s68977824 :

🤍