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kimhart2025 :
I wonât call, but I would answer. It has nothing to do with ego and pride. It has everything to do with his lack of ability to have an adult conversation and accountability. Thatâs a dealbreaker for me.
2026-10-01 15:25:10
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BarbaraBrown407 :
Hear me out⊠what if social media has brainwashed all of us? đ€ Just think about the â80s and â90s, when we didnât have social media. We actually COMMUNICATED. Men would knock on your door. Theyâd throw a rock at your window. đ They would call your house and ask for you. If they wanted to see you, they came to see you. Feelings were REAL. Men cried. Women cried. People actually sat down and talked through their problems. Now we have a million ways to communicate, but somehow we communicate less. Everybody is texting, ghosting, blocking, watching stories, checking likes, comparing relationships, and looking at what everybody else is doing. What if social media has actually done more harm than good to relationships? What if weâve become so accustomed to having endless options that we donât know how to genuinely connect, communicate, compromise, and build something anymore? Iâm not saying relationships back then were perfect. They absolutely werenât.
2026-10-02 00:53:16
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Maurandis Allen-Berger :
I wanna call, but Iâm not.
2026-10-01 16:52:19
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MyzzBree :
Iâm definitely not calling because I didnât put us in this predicament. Yes, youâre right Iâd answer. Heâd answer if I called I know. But because he knows heâd have to give an apology and Iâm gonna hold him accountable for his actions is why I know he hasnât called. Do I still love him ABSOLUTELY, but Iâm not accepting the disrespect.
2026-10-01 15:58:40
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Lost In My Space :
This time feels different. I think I finally understand that some people are only meant to be part of one lifetime. But Iâll look for him in our next one. đ
2026-10-01 16:51:22
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just.jen007 :
Heâs an avoidant, if I call I have no idea whether heâll be happy and pick up, or it will push him further away. đ
2026-10-01 16:49:58
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Classy Tracey :
Nope! Itâs more than pride itâs about emotional safety and the inability for them to have the capacity to hold you which at some point you have to accept and protect your heart.
2026-10-02 14:02:41
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GETEMDUNN | BETON YOURSELF ENT :
Why are grown folks playing games???
2026-10-01 17:35:36
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apadilladdd :
I would answer but Iâm blocked.canât force anything.if itâs meant to be then it will be.
2026-10-02 13:24:51
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Prosperous Kay :
Once pride and ego enters the chatâŠIâm out.
2026-10-02 12:13:47
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BeesWorld :
Noooo ladies stay in your divine feminine
2026-10-01 21:11:08
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Nikki Unapologetically đđœâïž :
Social media is ruining so many human connections đŻ
2026-10-02 04:22:31
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Trameka Naturallybea :
If I called he would answer but I won't call because I'll never trust him again and he doesn't see where he's wrong
2026-10-02 12:14:23
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Dev :
Pride broke more hearts than love ever will.
2026-10-01 18:45:14
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JustYai :
Neither of us will call, and Iâm so grateful to have gotten strong enough, that I will no longer answerâŠ
2026-10-02 08:51:55
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Mina_ :
The price is too big
2026-10-02 13:50:53
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Ash :
Iâm not calling or answering anymore.
2026-10-01 22:45:15
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Red_Da_Healer :
Exactly đ
2026-10-02 09:29:10
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Izzy :
Come on people- Communicate
2026-10-01 23:34:05
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LeoLioness :
Isnât all this exhausting? We get one life and folks playing catch me if you can. Love isnât hard. People make it. If I can live on my person all day, I would but I gots bills to pay so I will send him my kiss emoji and never let the night go by without saying goodnight.
2026-10-01 16:43:55
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Beautifully Complicated âïž đ :
I'm definitely not calling him bc I'm usually always the 1st to break the silence but not this time! I miss him so bad though!!!
2026-10-01 16:45:08
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jaysworld808 :
I hear you and I understand but Iâm still not calling and atp I may not pick up
2026-10-01 19:22:26
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_dr.lds :
I reached out and received surface level responses. Until they are ready for a conversation...I'm not calling anyone. I'm protecting my peace.
2026-10-01 22:27:33
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LaToya đŠ :
Very true. But what if youâre always the one calling, checking in, or making the effort? At some point, you have to wonder if the effort is being reciprocated. Youâre not keeping score, but you do want to feel like your presence and connection are wanted just as much as you want theirs. I think there should be some effort on both sides.
2026-10-01 15:44:42
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Anointed :
I am one that will make that call....and one to also answer. that comes with maturity
2026-10-01 14:03:35
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