@holisticskincoach: After 49 years of getting big things done under patriarchy and dealing with men in a wide variety of roles I have found that there is only really one method of communication that men actually understand. They understand painful consequences. And if there are none they will continue to do more of what they were doing before. As long as they are getting more rewards than pain nothing will change. #cornell7 #adviceforgirls #adviceforwomen #womantowoman #lifeexperience

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cyberpunkcrimes
Cyberpunkcrimes :
Grey rock method if you can’t leave.
2026-10-04 05:46:59
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sparkles8406
sparkles8406 :
men seem to respect you more when you're mean.... and by the time you're the mean one, you no longer respect them.
2026-10-01 23:32:19
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mushrooms_099
Ghost 💀 :
Why is it so difficult for them to have any empathy?
2026-10-04 19:54:37
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tricialiwan
Patricia Li-Wan :
Women remember attention from men is cheap but the attention we give them is everything
2026-10-04 20:08:43
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lovecapade
LoveCapade 🪄 ✨ 🇭🇹 :
We MUST be okay with not being in relationships and situationship.
2026-10-04 18:18:12
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pocket.full.of_posey
Cece :
Men don’t care until it affects them. A lot of men don’t fix their behavior until u withdraw access
2026-10-01 15:50:47
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sh10481103
SH :
I'm a psychologist, female. I worked in men's prisons in a leadership role for almost ten years. The only thing they seem to understand and respect (this includes partners and friends) is talking to them like you're their drill sergeant. It isn't my nature but it's all they respond to. If you're nice, you're weak and not serious. Don't tolerate their bullshit. I've said this a thousand times to female clients and friends and this creator is 100% correct.
2026-10-02 02:56:04
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ki882220
Vexo :
You ain’t no elder! You’re still that girl! Dont forget it!
2026-10-04 18:32:40
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pamelatr302
pamelatr302 :
Yup. Also make it cost them money.
2026-10-01 18:35:07
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bri_stokes_
Bri 🌹 :
HEAVY on remove access. Be the girl he couldn’t get! Be the one who got away.
2026-10-01 23:25:44
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xojadeross
𝓙𝓐𝓓𝓔🥀 :
my ex treated me the best when I was mean and didn't have any respect for him
2026-10-04 15:17:46
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jaclynhealingrebellion
Jaclyn :
Nothing but a nightmare. You are absolutely right. They don't respond to explanations, emotional confessions and so on. Repeating yourself doesn't help.
2026-10-04 22:09:13
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verichi_
verichi_ :
Men’s default attitude is to benfit from whatever you allow and test the limits. If you let things pass they’ll keep doing it
2026-10-05 18:35:14
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kawaii.from.mom
Kawaii from Mom :
Amen sister
2026-10-16 18:47:37
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ashley9curates
Ashley/Mermaids Loot :
babe, you are no elder! and you're so pretty!
2026-10-16 22:23:06
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ambercolemanhoward
Amber Coleman-Howard :
So true. Nothing we say matters.
2026-10-15 14:24:47
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lov_nique
D :
Your beautifulllll
2026-10-16 14:14:46
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giselepenzhorn
Groovy G :
Yes! I'm over the pond in Australia. In every day life, I seek to only work with/do business with/grow my career alongside WOMEN. I support female businesses with the intent to exclude male owned business. I extend this to my medical team, legal team...everything.
2026-10-16 03:37:50
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verenikat
Verena :
Forgiving bad behavior to them equals you telling him that it's okay to repeat said behavior.
2026-10-11 11:41:30
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harriss413
harriss413 :
Don’t try to find a « language » with people who don’t even humanize you. The problem is their deep misogyny.
2026-10-05 09:55:07
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skahluavs1123
Simran :
And you have to just be about it not talk about it
2026-10-01 23:57:33
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laurenxo012
Lauren 🇦🇺 :
I'm 46 and I've also come to understand that men only understand the consequences of their actions when it's painful for them and they actually suffer
2026-10-06 01:13:55
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merri.maven
Merri Maven :
They are TRANSACTIONAL- so this tracks.
2026-10-05 01:23:07
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evajeanetteugc111
EvaJeanetteugc111 :
Unfortunately the nicer we are the more men lose respect for us! I now find it a compliment when I’m called a bitch!
2026-10-03 21:58:14
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ljsnyder120
ljsnyder :
I literally said YEAH when you said consequences
2026-10-01 18:01:18
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