I last made REAL friends in highschool. I was never comfortable with making friends with people at adulthood. Even in university i knew the “friend” i made were never my friends. We knew eachother from what we presented to eachother. The friends i had early we grew up together. We can go a month without taking but we know eachOther from teenage to adulthood. That makes me more comfortable with them
2026-10-03 19:54:27
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onoi :
This is really sad honestly. I remember this year I went all out for my friends on their birthdays to an extent of taking a day off to celebrate them, but on mine I was all alone 😔
2026-10-04 14:43:56
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Mojapelo#28@ :
It's very important to not expect yourself from other people.
2026-10-01 17:44:25
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Noxy Bana :
I'm a pisces I love you very hard. I'm quite a loyal person. Once a pisces they decide you are no longer important, they treat you as if you do not exist
2026-10-01 15:53:13
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Sive :
I cried all day, thinking about how good and loyal I have been to people, yet when I go through hardships, I find myself facing everything alone. The very people I have been there for, who know how much I care and how I always show up for them, are nowhere to be found when I need them the most. They ignore me when I'm going through hell, only to remember my existence when they need something from me. Yhoo, it really hurts to realise that the same people you would go above and beyond for can leave you to deal with your struggles on your own. 💔
2026-10-01 18:07:41
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bulie :
Oh they do it keh mama …. They don kheee loyalty abayazi 😌
2026-10-04 06:57:50
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MaMdluli_05 :
I honestly have the same problem
2026-10-03 18:29:29
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Blessed :
That’s me but I’m slowly learning that’s usually not the case
2026-10-03 05:33:57
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Slindokuhle Mbatha 🎀 :
Thats my argument. We had a conversation about it with my man the other day. He told me he's aware that i cut people off without even thinking twice or giving them a second chance. I told him its because I don't expect a grown up to do to me something I will never do to them, its inhumane and they know exactly what they are doing and I will not be anyone's playground end of story
2026-10-03 05:28:27
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Phiwinhlanhla Nkosi :
Lol I learnt the hard way ukuthi some people bakhuliswe in survival mode and they will bite you if it benefits them
Still don't understand but I'm definitely learning ukuth asifani
2026-10-01 15:42:57
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Wembe :
Yes. But you're glowing ❤️
2026-10-01 15:47:09
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Mo plugs :
Learnt the hard way sis
2026-10-04 11:28:27
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Munaka❤️ Your TikTok bestie✨ :
Real
2026-10-01 19:34:20
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𝓚𝓮𝓪💋ྀིྀི :
It doesn’t matter, they don’t give a damn , I learned that lesson the hard way
2026-10-01 20:26:47
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🌸Mandisa🌸 :
Yooh that took me so long to figure out. I always thought “ do to others what you would like them to do to you” the world said no 😢😢
2026-10-01 19:48:14
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YAYARH.M🤎 :
“We are not cut from the same fabric” 👏🏾
2026-10-01 17:50:15
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Neoentle🫂 :
Being an empathetic person can really break your heart because you genuinely care about people, only to realize that some of them take advantage of your kindness and play with your emotions.
2026-10-01 17:32:12
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Dudu Dee Khumalo :
My tattoo reads “not everyone has the same heart as you” i literally learned the hard way but we learn we grow❤️
2026-10-02 19:23:14
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kaymabitsela_ :
I suffer from I’ll never do it to you.., so you will never to it to me . And guess what
2026-10-01 19:53:33
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Noxy Bana :
We are not the same serious.
2026-10-01 15:34:38
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Precious Modisha :
I do not people please anymore. I'm free
2026-10-02 06:57:17
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ngingumanqoba :
What you just said is so powerful ❤️
2026-10-01 16:08:37
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Sethabile Minenhle :
This year I learnt to not expect myself from people. So people's s behavior towards me doesn't shock me anymore, because they are not me.
2026-10-02 05:41:47
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Gqibelo Mahlangu :
Let us reduce the expectations that we set for other people. Also, that person othi angekhe angenze njalo, uzokwenza! That person you think will never do you like that-will do you exactly like that nana. Ene because you have a good heart, you will forgive them bese bakuphinde and then uthi hai marn maybe yimi, maybe I was not a good friend lalela manje they are going to mob the floor with your heart. 🤣😂
2026-10-01 20:07:58
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Busi :
I’m listening to what you’re saying ne ai mara your face yo!umuhle sisi 🥰🥰🥰
2026-10-01 17:09:10
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