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L 🧿🍉 :
They say we attract the wrong men, but no one talks about how many men pretend to be good guys just to win us over. It’s not our fault they fake an entire personality to make us like them.
2026-10-02 11:25:47
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💕 :
Like why am I getting blamed for a man deciding to treat me bad? 😭
2026-10-02 13:43:09
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🩷 :
100% agree. it’s also another form of protecting the patriarchy because it’s blaming women for being mistreated.
2026-10-01 22:00:18
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𝓤𝓜𝓪𝓜𝓰𝓪𝓫𝓪𝓭𝓮𝓵𝓲ᥫ᭡ :
Bad men just tend to find good women .
2026-10-01 20:24:57
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Kealeboga_Kee :
I stopped dating and stayed single for years because I realised there is an abundance of terrible men and I’m tired of sorting through them like I’m dumpster diving .
2026-10-02 07:40:55
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therealannieshaikh :
and thinking you’re an exception will lead you to the worst situations
2026-10-02 00:56:07
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Iris :
This. People who have self respect, are kind and have good values will still attract the opposite and it’s not their fault!
2026-10-01 21:51:07
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Noreen :
“You attract who you are“ but I’d never do what men do to women…never!!!!id never do that to another human being!! I promise!!!😭😭😭
2026-10-01 20:53:00
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teddygirlaliya :
Out of 10 women, 8 are good and 2 are bad however out of 10 males, 1 is good and 9 are bad. Yet somehow, we’re still told to blame our “mindset” for the kind of males we attract. Oh, sorry, let me journal and pop out a good male out of the paper. We women are such lovers and hopeful creatures, we keep hoping that the next male will be worth it. But they are ALL stitched from the same fabric. At some point, maybe stop psychoanalyzing women for encountering awful males and start asking why so many males are comfortable being awful in the first place.
2026-10-01 16:33:10
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Janelle :
attracting bad men isn’t a thing there are bad men everywhere in multitudes of them- it’s what you do when a bad one enters your life having standards and boundaries
2026-10-01 18:03:21
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Ritu Pandey :
I have been saying this since forever.
2026-10-01 18:50:23
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S :
The majority of the dating pool has bad men. Most good men are able to keep a long lasting relationship.
2026-10-08 15:44:40
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Merikoko :
Abundance of them😭🤣 100%
2026-10-01 17:51:13
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Danielle Nutritional Therapist :
And let's not forget they lie to the extent THAT THEY ARE MARRIED. Happened Twice now!!!
2026-10-07 23:51:31
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EnaGee |Rapper/Producer/Singer :
Bad men want good women too. I'm not taking the blame for their behaviour. I test them rigorously and kick them out swiftly. Yes, I had a man lie about his personality, views etc for moooonths too. Took him for all he got, profited and now I laugh about it.
2026-10-08 09:05:56
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Tatiana Zondowicz :
FINALLY! thank you for saying it !
2026-10-08 12:57:37
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fridaythe13th__ :
EXACTLY ‼️‼️‼️‼️
2026-10-08 06:26:33
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Grace5 :
correct
2026-10-07 11:59:11
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Here4thelaughs :
We get blamed for ignoring the red flags instead of the men having the red flags
2026-10-02 03:56:50
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Wendy :
women need to come together for each other, instead of tearing us down
2026-10-02 03:48:41
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jasminee.faith :
When I was unhealed I met shitty men. When I journaled and read self help books and went to therapy I met shitty men. When I lost weight and spent hundreds of dollars a month on my appearance I still met shitty men. Like… the problem is not me!
2026-10-02 14:52:08
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Hypnotist :
You just have to stop at the first red flag every time
2026-10-02 18:21:10
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Life_with_Golda :
There was I time I actually believed it, especially those “you chose the wrong one” like please there was no right man to start it. We all can’t be wrong.
2026-10-01 19:46:50
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McShecannogget79 :
It’s similar to abusers… no “type” of woman attracts them. There are just so many out there. It’s a probability issue.
2026-10-01 17:45:50
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jhess :
Meeting shitty men is not our fault, staying with them is
2026-10-03 14:55:55
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