My wife is the first in her family and her family are negative towards her, mind u both her parents died and they where not married but we surviving and she is a very good person. Usuka emakhaya she has respect it's like wafundiswa today I'm 39 she is 30years old and we very happy
2026-10-02 04:57:08
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M4thezz :
Every minor inconvenience “Buya mntanami awuqoshwanga ekhaya”
2026-10-02 12:04:51
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Yanda :
Same applies with man.
2026-10-02 06:51:45
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Phumlan Mthethwa :
My father once told me this
2026-10-02 03:18:22
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Bennie Juss Like Moses :
And it's true 👌😅
2026-10-13 12:27:25
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MoJay MoLife :
What if you are both from similar situations but you wanna break those chains?
2026-10-02 04:09:09
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Feliqiniso 🇿🇦 :
iqiniso lodwa mfo I've been there...it's very important to check background 🤞
2026-10-02 03:03:43
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THIYA :
had to fail twice to get it through my thick skull
2026-10-02 06:50:02
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Ennieka ♥️♥️ :
mina my boyfriend used to say your like your mother because she's not married and that I'll end up like her and I'll also say that he will also end up like his father he doesn't have a place or a home. it's not only woman also man must have their background checked
2026-10-02 05:28:10
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Sdunga :
Yuuuuuuuuu bru 👏 truth and only the truth Ngyabonga mf2
2026-10-02 06:17:56
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Paul De DJ :
If they don’t respect men in that home there’s no way they’ll respect you as umkhwenyana. And the woman you’re marrying will have no clue on how to separate boundaries on marriage and her family’s opinions. You’re correct my brother.
2026-10-02 04:31:55
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Miss. T :
How about a man raised in horrendous circumstances bringing his trauma into his own marriage. Examples shouldn’t be one sided.
2026-10-02 06:09:43
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Porchea :
It's difrnt strokes fr dfrnt folks. singa generalayzi. 😥 this is sad.
2026-10-02 10:15:48
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Mtimandze :
I learned the hard way and you are 💯 correct
2026-10-02 05:19:29
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Nonhlanhla :
Very true…
2026-10-02 04:11:43
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userWisey. Mtheku :
yonkinto inesiqalo bafo. kungavela ngaye.
2026-10-02 10:31:55
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Siphamandla Ngcobo :
Put volume. Put volume…..
2026-10-02 02:13:24
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Halls emnyama :
bheka ikhaya othatha kulo umfazi
2026-10-02 03:42:49
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Mavela kaSodubo :
ikakhulukazi umama wentombi plays a very critical role emshadweni wendodakazi yakhe
2026-10-02 18:53:53
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zm8835627ac :
True, iBackground is important
2026-10-03 19:42:17
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siyabonga nkomo :
Back ground is very important and we over look this part as a black race. I learned this late in life and asifundiswa lento early like other races. Feelings aside this man is correct.
2026-10-03 15:33:38
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SirYAGAMI7 :
Generational curses are to be broken
2026-10-02 09:12:27
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Nokukhanya Mseleku 💎✨️ :
Kithi no one got married, Trust me when I tell you that I have mentors outside my family who are married for years and those are the people that I go to for advice...
The sad part is that we lost real people and relationships over such. If 2people can date and understand their family history then work to fight together yhise issues.. Hai we wud have broken some patterns and create new ones...
2026-10-02 05:46:44
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