Hey, hi there, parent of a trans teen here 👋 My husband and I thought hard on our kids names. We loved the names. We love our kids' mental health more. The name we chose is their dead name and that's okay. Alive kid. Happy, healthy kid.
2026-10-01 22:47:14
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That is really weird. Haven't seen you on my feed in a while, your haircut is so perfect for you and so pretty 💕
2026-10-03 22:27:42
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Two things can be true ⭐️ :
My bonus kids pharmacy has his name in parenthesis and uses that to speak about him. His dead name is on the legal spot but I just have to say it once at the start of the exchange. Hugs.
2026-10-04 03:57:30
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Eden🇨🇦🌈 :
I started to go to this old school pharmacy because it's near my house. I realized my German pharmacist has a trans tech and their greeting cards section includes coming out cards. I now send all the peeps there.
2026-10-02 11:25:12
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what.the.eff. :
Is it still your legal name ? I’m in health care we have to use which ever name is the legal name . Maybe it wasn’t to snub you
2026-10-01 19:31:14
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syndal :
The few times I’ve had that issue I very loudly just say “Oh I’m sorry it’s pronounced Crystal. It’s tricky I know.”
2026-10-01 19:59:07
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CND25 :
First I’m so sorry….You need to contact the pharmacy owner and let them know that they have an awful ignorant employee representing them and the company 💪
2026-10-04 05:08:30
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ari.agha.queer :
The number of times I’ve been called my super feminine dead name while picking up testosterone….
2026-10-03 02:07:36
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realforrest1 :
I've been told that I overthink to much and that no one care about that stuff my fav tho so far has been getting told that me telling the truth about others is me seeking revenge and that I just need to let it go lol
2026-10-02 12:24:08
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hartly.a.problem :
my mother and i went to the pharmacy to pick up our meds together (disabled bonding time lol) and the pharmacist said, i shit you not, "TESTOSTERONE FOR THE YOUNG LADY?" and i was just standing there like 😐 like maybe rethink that one chief
2026-10-02 03:25:12
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Tall Mara :
One of the techs at my pharmacy does this to me. None of the women there do it
2026-10-01 19:38:28
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Carol Parker 🏳️🌈🇨🇦 :
Every time my wife goes to get her Hormone levels checked, it’s the same thing. And honestly it bugs the heck out of both of us, because her o name is in the system, and on her requisition. There is no excuse for a deadname to be used if the chosen name is right there.
2026-10-02 02:13:58
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Frankie-Lou :
Tell me which pharmacist....I just want to talk to Them
2026-10-01 17:38:46
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🇨🇦🏳️⚧️ 🍓 Hanah 🍓 :
I didnt know how important it was to legally change my name until it was actually done. like as I was preparing the paperwork and waiting it was something that was kindda cool for me to do. but once done, it became the most important thing i did for my transition after starting e.
2026-10-01 19:05:30
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manydragonflies #C222 :
That is why my child chose to legally change their name. 🫂🫂
2026-10-01 18:42:41
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Tiny Bee :
Yeah that is weird and she knew what she was doing…I’m sorry that happened to you
2026-10-01 17:41:27
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maureenbarnes2🇨🇦❌ :
I’m actually angry for you!! Send me to your pharmacy!! I’ve got some pent up frustrations that I need to let out!!😂 you’re looking beautiful young LADY!!❤️❤️
2026-10-01 19:38:41
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Janice Bingham 🇨🇦 :
I will never experience your life as you, but I love that you are comfortable sharing your experiences with me. Pronouns and names are important!!!!
2026-10-01 21:19:30
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Jenn :
I don’t know why people go out of their way to be disrespectful. Is there another pharmacy you can go to?
2026-10-01 21:10:41
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chloe :
There is a reason for that. They do that for liability reason, what’s on your health card is what they gave to use. I have been going to the same pharmacy since I started HRT 3 years ago they know me by sight, but…
2026-10-02 09:44:02
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🍒🍊🌟🌱🐟🪻🎀 :
Not to be rude but did you try correcting them? I would have thrown up a fuss and asked to speak to their manager bcus wtf 😕
2026-10-02 06:06:03
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tehlaser🏳️⚧️ :
my first such experience was confirming the estrogen dose listen in my medical record with the nurse at a doctor’s office. He then said “thank you, sir.” I said something to the effect of “really? we’re talking about estrogen and you’re gonna call me sir?” I wasn’t exactly being sweet about it, but I wasn’t rude or anything. He claimed he called everyone “sir.” Uh-huh. Sure, buddy. I let it slide, he left, and another nurse handled the rest of the visit.
2026-10-02 20:46:43
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fembot_33 :
im sorry you were in that sitch
2026-10-01 23:09:58
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Rebecca Davis :
I am glad you have safe people to tell. Me included ♥️
2026-10-02 01:39:11
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