Shera seven said your goals are none of their business. Play dumb. Don’t talk about work. If you have a good job, lie and say you’re a waitress or something. Your money and goals is NOT his business. Play dumb and lie. Lie lie lie.
2026-10-03 12:14:06
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Ren :
Ladies, goals and purpose are 2 different things. For example a new car or a new apartment is a goal. A purpose drives your entire life. For example, if your purpose is to create, you'll pursue goals that allow you to express that creativity. You might earn a degree that aligns with your interests. Goals are milestones, your purpose is the direction you are moving in 🫶🏽
2026-10-02 08:48:10
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hmmm. :
This is why a lot are so quick to have kids then have an identity crisis when those kids no longer depend on them.
2026-10-02 02:34:00
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abbylee_xox3 :
I agree, but how do you find your purpose? This is always the golden question.
2026-10-02 02:01:00
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Da Queen :
The only example of a purpose I found in the comments was “to be creative”
2026-10-22 21:52:39
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YaniY2K :
"My child gave me a purpose" oh brother...
2026-10-16 21:44:59
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alert :
I agree so much! A lot of women unconsciously will scoot their goals to the side for “just in case” a man swoops them and gives them a reality they’ve convinced themselves is only accessible through him. And ofc he will enable this to boost that ego 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
2026-10-01 23:38:23
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naturallydope00 :
I’m definitely livin’ in my purpose…..ppl stay being inspired by me because of the affect I have on them
2026-10-02 01:38:07
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Rii rii :
Because we are so brain washed from childhood and the purpose is to get married and have kids that’s it !!!
2026-10-09 14:55:29
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newrinewbo :
I think this one is one of your best posts. Hard pill to swallow. But much better than staying in purposelessness and just being recruited to assist other people’s purpose.
2026-10-02 13:38:39
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Iza Taylor :
This is soo well articulated
2026-10-02 03:21:15
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Katrina Ingram :
Aawwhh: That's why I agree with you when you state: It takes a special man to embrace a woman truly evolving to her self-actualization. These men are almost impossible to find.
2026-10-02 21:05:19
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Dejhia D Bailey :
This is a good one.
This is very important: find something to do with a goal or a hobby, even if it's just to educate yourself. A good example is when women can be educated and find a hobby; a man can get in the way and find it intimidating if he doesn't have a mature mind.
2026-10-02 05:56:31
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LessFinesse702 :
im a man and your clarity is crystal clear and has even opened my eyes on this side 👏👏👏
2026-10-02 01:12:06
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✨🌸S P E C I A L K A Y🌸✨ :
This is true. I almost allowed a man to take me off my path. No matter how attached I was getting, I allowed myself to stay focused what was important to me and now I'm a licensed esthetician working on my goals. I'm about to get into yoga so I can continue to stay grounded and focused. You must stay busy and creative with your life.
2026-10-03 15:50:37
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𝓛𝓪𝓮 :
Dropping 💎s, per usual ❤️
2026-10-03 05:08:07
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Me90 :
You are so right.
2026-10-02 00:24:50
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gchepngetichh :
This is so inspiring.thank you
2026-10-01 23:50:24
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killacamrose :
Before watching this I was thinking about how inspiring you are.
2026-10-02 07:02:28
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meangirlx :
Facts
2026-10-02 00:33:43
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Ana victoria :
I learn this the hard way. But now I am making time for myself
2026-10-02 02:31:48
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Renee :
A PURPOSE keeps you PRODUCTIVE 🥰
2026-10-02 07:55:38
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FraiseDoll :
How can we get or find that direction? I love your message and I’m not looking for instructions but I want to improve and want to be like you but do not how to start.
2026-10-08 09:49:10
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