@raisingboys_2men: Child maintenance and access to your child are two separate things. Providing financially for your child is a parental responsibility. It is not payment for access, and it should not depend on whether @Francesca Amber you see your child. Equally, contact with your child should not be used as leverage to force financial payments. Your child is not a bargaining tool #childsupport #childmaintenance #cms #singlemum #singleparentlife

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cathy.nash11
🤪🤪🤪 :
Half the time the other parent falsifys there earnings so how they think 2.50 a week is enough they need to do more checks on earning
2026-10-06 17:36:32
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knowone851
knowone851 :
Yes why should it just be down to the mother to support the child that 2 people made. Yeah I get people are stopped from seeing there kids but the one that are not and just don’t bother give them that are fighting to see there kids a bad name
2026-10-06 09:13:32
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unitedlegacy1992
🔥united(D@n)Legacy🔥 :
tbh i am a full time dad and work! have been for 8 years! never needed csa or money from the mum! i have proven, you dont need that extra money! i think its all corrupted! just more momey for the other person! when they dont need it!
2026-10-05 23:15:13
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mwatsonn90
Mwatsonn90 :
Ok that same logic then, is it fair when one parent restricts another’s access for financial gain, you agree the parent who’s seeking financial gain should be reprimanded?
2026-10-06 10:33:13
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clairewatkins07
Claire Watkins :
yeah it should when mums take cms but stop good dads
2026-10-06 06:52:12
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corinne.widnall
Roc_Corinne :
Say it louder for the ones who don’t get it
2026-10-05 14:44:17
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certifiedlioness
CertifiedLioness :
But if It’s a legal requirement how come many dads get away with not paying?
2026-10-02 09:40:44
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lilmissbyrne
lilmissbyrne :
If it’s legal then why isn’t it mandatory
2026-10-03 10:31:14
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lishamarie35
Lisha Marie 💜 :
They should be done for child neglect for not providing for their child. If I was to leave my children to their own device I would be done for neglect .. so why are these other parents walking away and not providing and getting away with it.
2026-10-02 15:52:15
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mounjaro_mama
Ally & MJ Baby 💙 :
my baby daddy doesn't do either...
2026-10-03 15:37:33
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mrslucifer1
Sabrina :
Unless the other parent keeps maliciously trying to block you out of the kids lives . If this keeps happening and you have been going to court multiple times the court should at least put a temporary stop to the child support and or change custody.
2026-10-03 08:05:53
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th3beautyr00m
Th3BeautyR00m :
No they shouldn’t be in the same conversation . But also the said other parent should help contribute to their child’s upbringing and the government needs to investigate these parents that say they have no earnings but work full time.
2026-10-03 09:18:22
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misraffa
Mish :
Sorry but how does she not know that? regardless of access the child still needs a roof over their head, feeding, clothed, hot water etc?
2026-10-02 09:37:38
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stuartnd26
Stuart :
I agree it’s a legal requirement but if you get told when you split up you can’t see the child i think the parent shouldn’t be allowed to access the money but the other parent still pay into a fund.
2026-10-05 10:04:47
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missscarlett357
MissScarlett :
If you don't provide for your child then they don't eat, they aren't warm and they suffer. It is child abuse. I feel like courts should look at that aspect.
2026-10-04 17:41:45
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cerysclaire
cerysclaire :
If a dad isn’t making any financial contributions to the house where his child(ren) lives, why is a mother expected to facilitate contact? It’s a give and take situation…some dads want to watch a mother struggle but expect the most from them. It works both ways
2026-10-04 13:10:36
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luearley
Lucy Earley🍊 :
But if you don’t pay for your child, that’s neglecting your child. So why should you have contact if you are willingly neglecting your child
2026-10-04 13:24:24
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sunflower20141
Sunflower20141 :
It may be a “legal requirement” but many parents don’t so isn’t them going against it? So shouldn’t legal action be taken against that parent? Nothing happens if a parent doesn’t financially help towards their child so therefore it’s an option.
2026-10-02 10:36:23
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beckybalshaw
Becky Balshaw :
Legal requirement… that no one can enforce! More should be done to the parents that don’t pay, there are no consequences if you don’t? Or if you lie to the system to avoid it!
2026-10-04 08:33:04
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naomihemberylee
naomi :
A child is a child not a subscription based plan
2026-10-04 07:12:44
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em_ppl1
emma p :
Contact, and maintenance should be very separate. Time with your kids is not a weapon
2026-10-03 19:33:50
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abbeymegan_1
A B B ☁️ :
surely if they're not paying c.m then how on earth are they going to afford/be trusted to pay whilst they have your child in their care? cause if you're not paying me then how on earth can they be trusted to pay for food? or toiletries? or clothes? ect whilst in their care some parents expect the other parent to provide them with a bag full of stuff (food clothes ect) when the other parent hasn't contributed anything towards the cost of their child's needs so why should it be provided for them. the whole systems messed up
2026-10-04 23:28:50
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dannyboi19847
dannyboi19847 :
my partners ex is working full time, cash in hand and claiming benifits, the CMS has stated he does't need to pay anything due to the benefiys and he has his daughter 4 nights a month, any advice please
2026-10-03 15:03:52
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s1owwburn071
(oTDPo) S1owwburn071 :
Yeah I agree dads should pay for there children but what about if we’re being stopped seeing the children and can’t afford the courts what then
2026-10-02 09:11:36
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dylanmoulese.h
dylanmoulesE.H :
Child maintenance should be paid in vouchers so the parents can’t spend it on themselves. Most child support doesn’t get spent on the child the parents spend it on themselves.
2026-10-02 12:44:45
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