@adhd_love: Arguing when your partner has ADHD 😡

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marutravelsjapan
Maru Travels :
I hate it when I get the question: "tell me when". I DON'T REMEMBER! But I DO remember how it made me feel! 😠
2026-10-02 11:25:32
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appleuser24377512
lilbeanbug :
“I can’t remember specifics but I can remember how you made me feel”
2026-10-02 13:11:35
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ashleyhaydenbrown
Ashley Hayden Brown :
I hate this part of adhd. I forget why I'm upset all the time and then it makes me feel stupid
2026-10-02 10:34:16
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kablam_exclamationpoint
Kala :
I remember the feeling not the timestamp
2026-10-02 11:44:26
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g0thic_semblance
restlessinkirkwall 🇬🇧🇪🇺 :
in a non-funny way, this is a great example of how people with adhd are at higher risk of being taken advantage of by manipulative people 🥲
2026-10-02 10:52:06
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wit.n.whild
they.call.me.🐨Daisy :
this argument is only possible when the other person is Autistic 😂 our sense of justice and honesty 100% has got your back
2026-10-02 11:10:56
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lkelz93
Lizzy Kelly :
when you both have ADHD and terrible memories so you hit each other with the "give me an example" and no one ever can
2026-10-02 10:29:35
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lynngardium
lynngardium :
I always say “I’m not keeping a running log against you, I’ve been trying to let it go” because I know it’s happening and I know I’ll remember later but it’s not fair in the moment that they get to win because my memory is panicking
2026-10-02 12:56:35
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sansa.212
Rosie :
I write it in my notes now for this reason 😂 now I can refer to my notes with dates and times and full statements written directly afterwards 😂
2026-10-02 11:04:20
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majesty4098
Majesty :
i finally found a way to make habits feel less boring 😂 the priori app gives my adhd brain something to work toward
2026-10-02 10:49:26
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story_in_silver
♡• 𝙰𝚜𝚝𝚛𝚢𝚗 •♡ :
I HATE it when my husband insists on "proof" like dont do this, I have short-term memory I remember that ive felt like this before, but I dont remember when 😭 it makes me feel crazy
2026-10-02 15:13:19
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littlewolf0400
LittleWolf0400 :
I hate it more when I think I have remembered and then someone sais I made it up, because I can never be 100% sure my memory is truly accurate 😭
2026-10-02 11:10:05
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sydney0623
Sydney Mesa :
this explains why nothing takes the amount of time it should 😭 the priori app helps my adhd brain stay on task
2026-10-03 17:55:00
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its_me_flowey
Flowey :
I've legit said "that's not fair, you know I have terrible memory" and he was like yeah fair point lmao
2026-10-02 11:31:44
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hdmarz
HDMARZ11 :
My brain be like
2026-10-03 02:17:34
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ma_angelf
ma_angelf :
My boyfriend say that all the time and I look at him so bad when he say that. Like what do you expect! That I start counting everything you do wrong? WELL I DON’T WANT TO DO THAT IT’S TOXIC
2026-10-02 16:00:42
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lolabuhlola
lolabuhlolaPhD :
Y'all really gotta start journaling. Then you'll always know the day something happened.
2026-10-02 13:23:56
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avalon3196
Avalon :
Level 2 is when you both have ADHD so they're like "you do this!" and you're like "I don't remember doing it, but I don't remember lots of things so PROBABLY" and then they think you're being flippant or dismissive
2026-10-02 13:43:49
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justabrowsing
Kris ◢ ◤ :
Ah my poor memory recalling is adhd
2026-10-02 14:15:55
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ec_802
Ec_80 :
my ex did this constantly, I started taking notes and dates, then when I finally gave him an exact date and time etc. he got SO mad 💀, they only do it to manipulate you nothing else, to make you feel like youre crazy and overexaggerating
2026-10-02 17:50:13
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mystiqmagpie
Twichl :
It makes me want to literally write it down when it happens, but whipping out a book of your partners wrongdoings mid fight is insane
2026-10-02 18:24:19
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dollstreasurenails
Doll’s Treasure Nails :
i just say “why would i make this up just to argue with you? youre hurting my feelings and we need to address this, its not about YOU feeling bad or getting defensive, and i still love you, but its about you treating me in an xyz way and we need to talk about it and fix it”
2026-10-02 17:01:08
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deathcootie
Ethan Albin611 :
My ex wife is a brilliant doctor and has a memory like a steel trap. Meanwhile I would waltz into impassioned arguments with nothing but vibes.
2026-10-02 11:49:29
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naughtycooker
Natalie McGowan :
My ex would use my memory as weapon against me
2026-10-02 11:56:40
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mutsbaby
mutsbaby🇿🇼🇿🇲 :
Now imagine being gaslit
2026-10-02 10:49:41
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