@sheena.tiktok76: Replying to @That Girl🇵🇱 I agree wholeheartedly with you!!! Parenting is SOOOO different to what you expect it to be #parentingstruggles #parentinggoals
I did both sides. I had my first child at 22 and then 3 from age 32 till 39. Now I am 42 with 2, 5, 8 and 19 years old. I still believe that my children at age 32 or 39 is fitting better in my life. We are so busy, but never I feel like life is difficult or "shit". There are lots of work daily, but age 40 with children feels normal as we were planned each pregnancy, with last 2 children learned how to "fit" children in our life with already oldest children. And routine is a key, consistence is a key. With my first child at age 22, it was massive shock. It was "lost" life feeling quite often when everyone was enjoying life and going out, partying etc. I was attending studies with a baby in a stroller.
2026-10-03 18:32:13
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Contented :
Be careful what you wish for! Just saying. I'm late 50s 🤫 have a 9 yr old. Not biologically. Neurodivergent. My life is also mostly shit! 😂Oh & a 94 yr old parent! Before 40 would be most advisable. Or if you dont want any, enjoy your life because all they bring mostly is pain! 😂😉
2026-10-03 06:47:30
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imogenwhitehouse3 :
I had my first child at 20 and my second at 25 and I have said I won’t be having any children after 30 because I was to be free and ready to live my life by 40 🤣 I’m glad I have had kids early because I don’t hate that I’m not free because I only got 3 years of being free and I wasn’t a fan of it to be honest 🤣🤣
2026-10-03 18:48:49
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Noemi🥳 :
Hello, had my son at 20 and my doughter at 22🤭😂
2026-10-03 17:18:54
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Abbie :
This happens having kids at any age? The only solution is don’t have them ? It’s a shock at any age you have to adapt x
2026-10-03 10:54:04
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Therealtas :
Im currently 27 and im not ready to let go of my child free life 😭😭 I went through changing nappies and feeding my younger siblings when they were babies and now theyre teens and im ngl its just not appealing it seems like such a massive project that never ends 😭
2026-10-02 11:11:41
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Zizzy🍄 :
You're literally advocating for people missing out on a massive part of their lives. I got baby trapped at 18/19 and my freedom was torn from me before I was ever allowed to enjoy it. 30's is the perfect time to have kids IF you want them. Most people end up regretting them though
2026-10-02 12:16:01
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leoni.Essex :
I love your page 🥰
2026-10-02 19:52:48
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Roberta Carlone :
What about kids at 37/38 years old?
2026-10-02 23:13:57
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TheOGHildegard :
84 and forever grateful my mother had me almost aged 44. she was a district nurse and a midwife, I had a wonderful childhood as did my brother
2026-10-02 10:44:15
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Mollymoo1043? :
20 & 25 had mine.. My daughter is now 44 Son is 39… So glad I had mine young. I’m still young enough to enjoy this chapter as a Nan..
2026-10-02 11:24:21
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Stephanie :
I was 38 when I had my last boy ,don’t get me wrong I love him to bits and we have an amazing bond ,but I am in menapause and have osteoarthritis and disc degenerative disease, I ve gone from running around the park to hardly leaving the house and the guilt that he isn’t getting the mum that my older children got
2026-10-02 10:38:07
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Geriatric Mum :
41 and 43. Now 53. BLESSED!!!! BUT, my lord it is awful!!! Perimenopausal with pre-pubescent teenagers (10 & 12) is trying for the soul! Thankfully I have good kids!!!.. with a somewhat mature sassy mouth. And funny AF! 😆
2026-10-02 12:30:28
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kirstyreeves260 :
i was 32 when i had my first & 36 when i had my 3rd….i love my kids - man i miss my child free life 🙈
2026-10-02 10:55:51
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Harshika :
I had my last kid at 41. It’s exhausting. Don’t recommend. I have tons of money but am trapped ain’t I, much as I love her. Can’t enjoy that wealth I made. 🙄
2026-10-02 13:30:39
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Ever Yours, Tracy :
I refuse to do it after 30.
2026-10-02 17:45:06
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dionnewilliamsart :
I was definitely naïve at 23 when I had my only son, but I'm SOOO glad I had him back then, because he's 34 now, own home and a beautiful lil baby girl (who I'm besotted with)! The older I got, the more I realised I'd have NEVER opted to have kids (the more aware I became)! so my ignorance was my saving grace 😍😳🤣
2026-10-02 12:03:59
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tigs :
very true
2026-10-02 10:45:25
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Jenny :
Try 49 with a 5 year old…not cool at all!
2026-10-02 10:44:46
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ANP R.C :
Am I allowed to agree with you as a clinician ?🙈😁
2026-10-02 13:37:53
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darkeyes4444 :
Love truth tellers 💯❤️
2026-10-04 00:36:46
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Bigbird :
Regret even having one 😳
2026-10-02 10:45:04
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hxnx :
I don’t know I think it’s all the same tbh, you just have to time when you want to have those difficult years. Either way it’s difficult, I had my kids at 25 and 27… and I’m 30 now… and it’s a lot… working full time with kids that young regardless would have been hard if I was 40 too.
2026-10-02 14:10:10
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TheSonyaShow :
Or just don’t have children. My own personal curfew is 33. Then after that it’s done. I’ll never be a mum and I’ll focus on being a Masi/Fai for my nieces and nephews. ❤️
2026-10-02 14:06:10
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Sajidahbegum335 :
Love your honesty.. I’m older than you a couple of years I agree. I had mine early 20’ s now free shes flown the nest I’m loving life free and happy.. 💯👏😂
2026-10-02 12:36:42
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