@invinciblevenus_: It matters a great deal to be aware of the system in which all of our actions, beliefs and thoughts are embedded in. We are unique individuals, yes, but we carry subconscious patterns from what our world has printed onto our minds. Men and women stand on different steps of the power ladder and no sexual interaction happens in a vacuum.
Also consider the orgasm gap… as a women you ask yourself: is he really going to take care of me
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elanawills :
I was JUSTTTTT talking about this! Specifically why hookup culture is not good because how it hurts women vs men societally. I agree with you 100%
2026-10-03 04:08:58
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Meew :
This also goes for situationships
2026-10-04 21:01:22
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noellecurated_ :
When her videos come on
2026-10-03 13:59:48
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Izzy Boysen :
I really need advice for how to navigate this as a young woman who just wants to hookup (shocking ik lol) I don't want a relationship but I have a very high sex drive. I would ofc prefer fwb so it's a consistent person I can keep seeing and learn about what I like. but, embarrassingly😅, the ppl I see usually ghost me after that first night or are very bad at sex and so I don't see them again. I try to be pretty safe, I have a bc implant and I always use condoms but I can't help but feel like I'm participating in my own oppression and like I'm being used because I know how these men think. especially when these men keep making it a hit and run💀
2026-10-03 13:16:03
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wendyvvv :
There is also a higher risk of contracting STIs for women than men and these have worse consequences for women (pain, cancer, infertility), where instead for men STIs are often symptomless.
2026-10-03 08:34:36
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🌞 :
Devaluation, coercion and STI’s are not only very real risks but likely outcomes!
2026-10-03 17:45:52
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Urkagurka :
I’m sat, my show is on
2026-10-02 17:18:33
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zoffe :
hookup culture ruined casual dating
2026-10-07 18:43:43
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Ren✨ :
I must have been the only one who thought what does the office of national statistics have to do with the patriarchy 😭
2026-10-02 18:59:36
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𝔄𝔯𝔡𝔢𝔫𝔱𝔅𝔩𝔬𝔬𝔡𝔥𝔞𝔦𝔩 :
I love every one of your videos i come across. Long time listener/viewer, but never followed. Going to do it now. Always thought provoking and psychologically analytical. Love it.
2026-10-02 11:12:04
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mh240592 :
I stopped all this nonsense a long time ago
2026-10-03 06:25:09
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Maria__cvl__444 :
but the theory says the patriarchy wants women married not hooking up
2026-10-02 14:43:27
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Caroline✔️ :
The social conditioning of saying no is so on point. I know many women who say no even though they really mean yes. The song «Baby it’s cold outside» is such a good example of this normalization
2026-10-02 11:35:01
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teaguzzles :
I’ve been musing on how to articulate this forever and you articulated this beautifully
2026-10-03 18:33:25
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user283747271747 :
this is a vast generalization. there are people who do not exist within these constraints.
2026-10-02 21:19:25
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Mina :
I could never get on board with ONS, tried it, felt used and bad afterwards every time. For me at least, I’d like to have a connection with them, not just let my body be used and that’s it.
2026-10-07 15:22:19
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Girlshavefun :
I often think about how men are often in power over women because the masculine way of being is louder. Whereas the feminine may actually be more powerful or grounded but it is quieter. Oftentimes overlooked or underestimated.
2026-10-04 08:34:32
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🩶 :
I ve opted out of sex and relationships. I'm a radical feminist and I think it would never be equal to partner up with men under a patriarchy. 🤷♀️
2026-10-11 17:36:17
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Uma :
good takes
2026-10-02 12:14:22
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carolinevildetlar :
Well explained 👏👏
2026-10-02 16:48:10
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towards.s :
I had a mother who was very vocal about the dangers of it since I was a kid. So I never ever thought of this as an option. They had to try hard, and I had to make sure I trusted them
2026-10-07 11:37:38
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Sarah :
very well said
2026-10-02 18:11:38
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😝 :
love listening to you while working on my art, its so soothing yet stimulating at the same time <3
2026-10-04 16:23:24
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Laurie :
let's not
2026-10-07 03:00:28
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