@adamreedeasom: Navigate through the noise #dating #fyp #40s #advice

Kelly Felten :

If you find the secret formula please share. I find honor and integrity to be so lacking, most talk about it and can’t be about it.

𝓑𝓮𝓽𝓱𝓐𝓷𝓷𝓮🎣 :

In the same state? I’m not even trying to drive 3 towns over haha . Put I say I’d avoid social media, put yourself out there, introduce yourself to women in your area, that are doing the same things you are. So at least you have the same interest to start.

Amy Cooley :

I comment on videos to bring a positive vibe to whomever. I don’t trust anyone that slides in my DMS on this app. You never know who is genuine. I’m not on here to date although it seems who pops in my DMs are. Be you and have fun

Lola’s mom and someones ❤️ :

Suggestion, stop trying to find it. Let it find you. And I personally don’t think social media is where to find someone. But good luck.

Imeelae :

It is easy to enter into a relationship, but the responsibilities become difficult, especially when you don't understand each other. But if you love each other, talk through every problem—especially at our age, from 40 and up. We should be enjoying life now, and stress should no longer be allowed. That is why it would be so wonderful to grow old with someone by your side through everything...😊

Tina :

why are there so many scammers

Kelly☘️ :

The amount of spam on here is ridiculous. Such a shame. I started asking for them to send me a voice memo in the chat to make sure they’re real and have appropriate intentions. Not ONE came back.

LynnThePowerHouse :

Where are you from?

Missgee :

good things sometimes take time and come unexpected, patience pay,take your time don't rush into something that you will regret,not people on social media are fake some are real.

Michelle :

Well you just made me feel half dead😂 almost over at 50 and here I sit at 54...im feeling now. I dont know the right answer. Things are so different from my time. If someone wants to genuinely talk try a phone call and not that WhatsApp crap. We are all doing our best...you got this just be catious.

Nay_Nay754 :

I get that there I a lot of noise

Lisa Sue :

Scary to try to find something online, it seems everyone is not real or not who they’re presenting to be.

I’mPrissy :

Can’t find it on TikTok!!

Suzy Q :

I’m going through the same thing I’m trying to post content and getting a lot of noise as you call it and I don’t know if I’m talking to somebody like AI or what’s going on you’re not alone

kmbrlysndrz :

You’re such a good man Adam. 🙂

Crystalmoseley :

I always found it difficult dating on social media and dating apps. I’ve pretty much gave up. The right one will come along but probably when you least expect it. Dating in 2026 is awful. Remember most don’t look like the profile pic lol

Tammy :

Hold on saying your time is running out at nearly 50 😂! It would be difficult to figure out with people online. I’d have to see them and their expressions, etc to figure out their intentions.

mona :

where are you from

Elena :

🌸 Michelle 🌸 :

Yea go to church find your mate there. Not on social media. Most people on social media aren’t real.

🇨🇦Amy Mohr🇨🇦 :

Most the women are just lonely and are looking for someone too talk. Start by asking where they are from right off the get go and be honest than be pleasant when you turn them down just don’t take it too far the woman could get to invested

user2529980063946 :

sweetheart I'm 64 my time is running out you still got a lot of time left and I'm still looking and can't find nobody genuine they're all fake and want money so I got nowhere I'm just going to give up talking to people on social media

Freda Terry :

Adam im 52 i was married to a monster he beat me and shot me with a 22 i left in 2018 i have been in 2 serious relationships since my last one lasted 4 years i been single a year i have dated but at this point im scared of a relationship been through hell and back i pray God puts the right woman in your life

L I Z 1010🦋❌🎂 :

I pray for some discernment

Sam :

Get off of TikTok if you want a real relationship, it's not a great dating app.