@theembodimentcoach: This is not an apology just personal accountability . Impact= Responsibility #unpopularopinions #blackmenarehardtolove #embodimentcoach #finalthoughts

1callmekeem :

Just imagine you a black men that go to work and come home and take care of 2 beautiful young black women and get on social media and see post like this every dam day …….. crazy

Blur_y2_ :

Now that you’ve finally sat down with Black men who challenged your perspective, you’re saying you want to educate yourself and reconsider some of what you said. Fine, but growth doesn’t erase accountability. You made a sweeping statement that Black men are “hard to love,” watched it reach millions, and helped fuel a dogpile against an entire demographic. You don’t get to benefit from inflammatory rhetoric and then sanitize it once people start challenging its implications. And to be clear, I don’t even consider DailyRapUpCrew an intellectually rigorous space. I’m not questioning anyone’s basic intelligence or whatever degrees they may have. I’m talking about the level of discourse. Their platform largely revolves around provocative dating, gender, and relationship conversations designed for engagement. Appearing there doesn’t suddenly turn a generalization about millions of Black men into serious social analysis. That’s my larger issue with people who contribute to this type of content. So much Black social commentary gets reduced to the lowest common denominator: gender wars and trivial dating discourse rooted in bitterness, hurt, poor decision making, and a lack of discernment. Then individual experiences are projected onto millions of people while class, education, economics, family structure, culture, and the diversity of Black America barely enter the conversation. If having your worldview challenged exposed holes in your original position, good. Learn from it. But intellectual growth also requires accountability. You can’t throw the grenade into the room, collect three million views from the explosion, and then distance yourself from the damage afterward.

reallife.nacho :

The first video Ts hurt my feelings so bad ngl sometimes I feel like me being a black man I just have to make up for others action or live up to expectations I can’t feel like me 💯

blkichiban :

Why must we always water down our arguments to make at easier for men to digest when men never do the same for us. All I hear is that WE have to be the ones to change to understand them 😪

Ms.Londa 💭💘🔗 :

Most of them lack comprehension! They’ll dismiss your experiences and try to gaslight you into questioning what you went through.

Sara :

That’s your experience and has been mine too. Everything you said was 100% VALID.

Intrigued :

What’s your ethnicity?

Catherine Elizabeth 🕊✨️ :

Anyways sista you look good don’t let them bully you.

Venflow :

I’m urging all BLACK LEFTISTS to read this article. We need to become familiar with this ideology and learn to spot its talking points when we see them

InstructorQ :

As a man you are entitled to your feelings. There is no need to apologize for your experiences. There are a lot of immature men and women whom are hurt and angry. These people need to heal and accept their ugliness. Many people don’t want to heal because they don’t like to see themselves and some like to feel right even when they know they are wrong.

SpicyCaffeine :

Everybody trying to get chose, so people copy the people that get chosen.

🌹Pat’ Rose🌹 :

Will be tuning in. Much love sis🫶🏽

jediah ⏾ :

this should be the vid going viral fr

ItsDJdotcom :

Much respect to you and your experiences are valid I’m glad u were able to take accountability without apologizing or making ur experience small from a black man to a black woman I appreciate ur ability to see both sides and take that in you are heard

OffDaRip :

whoaaaaaa you are Azazel is the fallen angel/leader associated with teaching makeup.. this female is no different then that female that made "where all my scammers at" .. no sorry mama you generalized your experience of all African American people..

Tumello Mloyi262 :

sstylezp :

I really appreciate you for following up with this. Also, I’m glad you were able to have the conversation. I’ll definitely be tuned in.💕

Therealchanelwestbrooke :

But I’m so confused on if you said it it doesn’t mean it applies to all. People always make something about themselves instead of letting it slide if it doesn’t apply

youngkingtavious :

Coco Is Gold :

also you look absolutely beautiful

Sturdy :

Moral currency for ourselves is fresh out, that’s the reason why we hurt each other so bad. *why you went viral* but as much as we hurt I think it’s room for empathy just not this lifetime 🤣🤣😂

HOGT :

Damage has already been done 😂.

regardless.reka❤️🔱🖤 🇺🇸 :

Please don’t apologize. They needed to hear it.

Megatron :

She found out what digital footprint is💀