@johndeakin44: When you spend so much of your life bending over backwards for other people, giving away your spare time, your energy, and putting everyone else first, you eventually forget about yourself. You do it for so long that saying no starts to feel selfish, almost like you should feel guilty for choosing yourself. But think about it… all those hours, all that effort, and all that energy you’ve spent making life easier for everyone else. Imagine what could happen if you started investing that same time and energy into yourself. Sometimes you have to stop being available to everyone else and start being there for yourself. It's not selfish to choose yourself. It's about time you did. #fy #fyp #motivation #motivationalspeech #LifeQuotes