@coach.ryan0: Texting with a dismissive avoidant: one day you’re getting paragraphs, the next day you’re lucky to get “k.” Then when you ask what changed, suddenly you’re the problem for noticing. You’re not needy for wanting consistency. You’re exhausted from trying to decode someone who keeps switching between close and completely unavailable. Stop treating mixed signals like a mystery you have to solve. The pattern is the answer. #DismissiveAvoidant #AvoidantAttachment #EmotionalUnavailability #RelationshipAdvice #Healing

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Kristin Cote :

It’s like talking to an a.i. customer service bot.

2026-10-02 20:26:50

Vulcan212 :

And the next day they’re asking you why you’re putting kisses and hearts at the end of your texts when you’ve been doing that and they have been doing that for the previous two years 😂

2026-10-03 08:30:11

Linda :

💯 You’re exactly right.

2026-10-02 21:13:16

🍁 Autumn 🍁 :

RUUUUUNNNN!!!!!!!!!

2026-10-02 17:18:56

Lara :

…and when you say sth having to do with emotions or needs …you say for example apple 🍏and a normal linked answer would be apple pie, apple juice or apple flavor. But their answer: tomato 🍅! After standing in front of him with the same apples all the time (trying to explain better, explain more, explain different) i had to leave - with a tomato company 🍅🍅🍅and completely exhausted…😔

2026-10-02 17:29:35

WIP_247 :

Yup.

2026-10-03 15:53:39

ivanka :

My avoidant ex was able to make one 20 minutes talk into one week… always replying after 12-24 hours time

2026-10-03 00:15:47

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