@jun_yuh: no, i’m not about to be a dad. but i think about it a lot because the world feels scary right now, and i’ve always dreamt of having kids one day, God willing i want my daughter to feel safe, and i want my son to be the reason other women do so i feel a duty to hold myself to what a real man is. not the one people fear, but the one people trust this is the letter i’d want my son to read, if God ever blesses me with one i’ll keep writing these as i learn.