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If you’re not better than my solitude than I don’t want it
2026-10-04 02:00:14
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Bee :
My wife of 10 years is very different to me. She grew up in a very traumatic environment and is fiercely independent. I believe she even properly ran away from home when she was a child. It is a great honour that she trusts, and loves me unconditionally. And I will never let her down ❤️
2026-10-03 04:33:34
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hakeemthedreeem :
“Knowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving. When we can be alone, we can be with others without using them as a means of escape.” - bell hooks
2026-10-03 17:20:57
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crystalizeh2o :
Yes, being in a relationship with someone who can’t be alone is hard 😫
2026-10-04 05:29:16
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prissy_cali_missy :
I lack nothing.
2026-10-04 05:51:23
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Natalie :
I was single for 8 years until I found my husband. I made it very clear to him that I don’t need him, I want him. We were married for 2.5 years and he had an affair and left me for her. He said he knew I was strong and can be on my own so he claimed I’d be fine. I hate him for it.
2026-10-04 05:01:35
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ariellesavannah :
Absolutely yes. I tell my partner all the time, you’ll never lose me to another man, I’ll choose my solitude over everyone else, including him lol. I love my own company. Thank you sir 🫶🏼
2026-10-04 16:07:32
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Bunnard :
I'm a solitary soul
2026-10-05 00:08:14
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Laila 💛 :
I honestly hope I can find someone the same way. Growing up with my mawmaw things were simple we watched movies played cards/board games. When you tell a guy you’re a homebody and enjoy being by yourself they call you boring. I’m just a simple girl.
2026-10-05 04:38:44
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Cesse :
Indeed! When you connect with this person you won’t get butterflies instead will you feel peace. Selah!
2026-10-03 14:47:50
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Spellflinger1965 :
Can I get an amen?
2026-10-02 19:18:02
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ZFG Drip Media💧 :
She said I was too nice then attacked me.
2026-10-04 22:25:20
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Lydia Hadley :
If I put time and love into someone, it’s because I truly CARE.
2026-10-05 04:24:55
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💎TT💎 :
Never thought about it before but this is very true.
2026-10-05 04:25:44
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Sue :
This is spot on. I love my solitude, wouldn’t trade it.
2026-10-02 23:22:58
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L. Wilson #2 :
That's true.
2026-10-05 04:21:15
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Missy Miss :
Truth from solitary soul[Red heart]
2026-10-02 20:49:29
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@Itzya.boiMark :
not me reading The Forbdden Rules of Mind in one sitting
2026-10-03 08:32:36
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Deedeemeghadoodoo :
This applies to friendships, too. As a happily solitary person, my inner circle is heavily curated.
2026-10-04 12:15:39
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Bellita_12 :
I LOVE being by myself! 👏👏👏
2026-10-02 22:14:30
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heyitsmecourtney :
And I NEED to be alone OFTEN to recharge and fill my cup back up. So if I start trading some alone time for you, baby you BETTER VALUE IT 😮💨🫰🏽✨
2026-10-04 18:15:24
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Damaria :
I always fear people choosing me because they don’t want to be alone, or don’t know how to enjoy life without a romantic relationship. It feels insincere and inauthentic
2026-10-04 14:16:40
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Ty aka Ruqayyah 🧕🏽 :
I absolutely love my solitude. I love the quiet, I love the freedom. However when I love I love pure and sincerely, I don’t need you but I really love having you in my life.
2026-10-03 23:57:37
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hattifattenership :
maybe never move in together though
2026-10-04 00:58:49
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