@thebridecollective: Your friend’s wedding is not the time to make everything about how inconvenient it is for you #weddingtips #bridal #friendships #weddingday #weddingplanning
if my friends ask me to put on a dinosaur costume at their wedding then so be it idgaf its their day.
2026-10-03 21:10:54
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kate :
choosing what someone else is gonna wear has always been wild to me
2026-10-04 19:02:38
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Bruh :
As 2027 I disagree.. Cause if it outta hand inconvenient, stressful, expensive and hard no one around is going to have fun and neither are you,
2026-10-04 12:29:24
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shastakenny :
I’m no longer accommodating people!!! You either come or you DONT!!!! We won’t miss you.
2026-10-28 01:47:44
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galaxygurl :
Had my wedding in my home country so had to book everything about a year in advance - my “best friend” said ‘I can’t believe you didn’t choose a wedding date that would work with my schedule” 🙃
2026-10-03 22:24:18
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⋆. 𐙚 ̊ ♡.⋆。𖦹 °˖ :
my best friend of 14 years didn’t make me a bridesmaid because we don’t live in the same city anymore, but made some random girl she met 2 months prior that she said herself she wasn’t close to a bridesmaid. then she wanted me to fly to her city on 6 different occasions aside from her wedding, making 7 trips total not even including her bachelorette. respectfully some brides don’t consider their friends either. i rsvp’d no and now we’re not friends.
2026-10-03 21:27:53
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🇵🇸🍉 Apple User283685388 :
What’s the point in a wedding that’s only good for you? Just elope
2026-10-04 20:36:03
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user485973252928 :
Idk as a bride I would never want to dress or inconvenience my friends. Them having a nice time makes me have a nice time
2026-10-04 02:10:58
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lizzyymccalll :
Crippling anxiety through this entire szn, I have to remind myself this is everything I’ve always dreamed about
2026-10-03 02:02:19
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amandasylcox :
The amount of people telling me they were “too tired” for something (like my REHEARSAL, or little things I planned to spend time with out of town guests, etc), followed by asking me to arrange things for their convenience completely stunned me. Do you realize you’re talking to the bride?? I AM THE TIRED ONE!!
2026-10-06 15:48:45
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T :
Yeah I had the conversation about how a wedding was getting too expensive with a bride, I bowed out as a bridesmaid and RSVP-ed “no”. It wasn’t fun for anyone but if you can’t be honest and kind with the bride, are you really close enough to be a bridesmaid?
2026-10-03 18:51:24
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Aerin Jennings :
The worst feeling ever
2026-10-03 01:03:14
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janellenellee :
if any of my friends had these kinda complaints I don’t think they’d be considered my friends 😵💫
2026-10-03 18:32:38
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Alyssa Aurora :
Hard reposting on my wedding day cuz these people stressed me out so bad leading up to this
2026-10-03 18:17:28
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dusty :
or complaining about cost…. i tried to find the cheapest/most affordable options and still heard people complain
2026-10-07 00:02:01
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Azure 🇵🇭🇦🇺🇩🇪🇦🇪🇮🇹 :
I've got one: "I personally don't believe in the institution of marriage. I will not go to yours since I refuse to support it"
Forgive but don't forget.
2026-10-05 11:30:24
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🫧 :
This is why I won’t be having a bridal party. No time for opinions or feedback unless it’s food allergies. Just show up and safely have fun 💕
2026-10-04 08:07:15
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katelynwayyy13 :
Silent repost lmao. It still doesnt end even for the after party lol.
2026-10-03 13:45:25
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briefedbycharlie :
THANK YOU. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
2026-10-03 11:45:01
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julia taylor :
I feel seen
2026-10-03 11:28:53
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Maomi :
This is why i dont want a wedding… i dont want a day to be all abt me and everyone feeling inconvenienced LOL i owe ppl enough favours as it is
2026-10-30 19:11:46
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lfodera823 :
It is truly the worst feeling ever.
2026-10-25 22:19:30
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kristyn :
I just argued with my cousin because he doesn’t want to stay with “random people” at my venue which is also a casita, his girlfriend is my bridesmaid, those “random people” is another bridesmaid and her bf, and he’s telling me MY bridesmaid won’t stay there because HE doesn’t want to
2026-10-10 00:00:14
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monicanev1 :
Silent repost 🫠
2026-10-03 18:00:29
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