@waystobetter: Being positive is great, in moderation. But when you have an expectation or entitlement for your life to go a certain way, you are setting yourself up for a high likelihood that you will be disappointed. Be optimistic, but don’t set yourself up for disappointment by thinking in an unreasonably optimistic way. Instead, set yourself up to be pleasantly surprised if life goes better than expected for you. And at the same time be prepared for things to go wrong. #thinking #mentality #lifecoaching #adviceforlife #quotestoliveby