@toltutufa: A child may not be protecting a secret. They may be protecting someone they love. Instead of telling your child what you’ll do to the person who hurts them, tell them what you’ll do for them if they ever tell you: believe them, help them, keep them safe, and remind them they’re not in trouble.
I haven’t told my dad it was his friend. I’m almost 30, I still can’t tell him.
2026-10-06 07:20:58
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absolutexnobody :
Shukran sister. this content of yours should be viewed in the millions if not billions.
2026-11-05 17:03:08
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Ali Mahmoud :
For years working long hours and get home late and tired but my daughter for years always she used woke me up to take her to toilet (not woke her mother) until I got advice from Child psychologist one day, she told me when your daughter wake you up next time take her to toilet but don’t kiss her, don’t speak to her, just hold her hand, tucked her back to bed. I did that twice she never woke me back again. Believe these psychologist.
2026-10-03 12:10:30
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Sole⁷ :
This is the exact reason I stayed quiet during my abuse. I was twelve and I thought I was alone, but he was also doing it to my little sister. he was my mom's cousin and someone my grandmother loved very much bc his mom was her sister. my sister told me before she told my parents bc she thought the same thing as me... "If we tell anyone, grandma will be devastated". the only reason I spoke up was bc I was attempting and my grandma caught me before I jumped. she asked me why I would do that and I told her. I was willing to die before telling anyone he was abusing me and my sister
2026-10-03 12:20:20
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🦢🍸*𝔓𝔲𝔯𝔷𝔶_ˎˋ٭◠➷🥥 :
this actually makes me fail to speak up about my problems ngl...
2026-10-08 15:32:15
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love-lee :
l kept all my bullying in school to myself because my mom would go off and insult the whole school leaving me embarrassed and even more scared to go back to school
2026-10-07 10:52:55
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Tigerlilyloveskoi2 :
Lifechanging words
2026-10-03 08:15:51
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sharen :
I’m not a parent but I have 3 teenage nephews and soon to be teen niece. I have been learning so much about this very heavy and taboo topics from this account. Of course, I will not overstep for starting this conversation with them first.. but if the kids came to me for a safe conversation, I would know what to say.. thank you 💚
2026-10-05 05:56:54
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Richie :
Eminem said “I would destroy anyone who would try to harm”
2026-11-05 01:07:04
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kggarrison :
wow never looked at it that way
2026-11-04 09:17:59
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Socialmediacoach :
😢😢😢 oh God help us raise our kids the right way
2026-10-04 05:53:18
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Samim Moslih :
What an amazing insight.
2026-10-03 14:37:11
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DayalanN :
I was gona say that to my girl, didn't realize it could turn out so negative.. I'm so glad I came across your content now
2026-11-04 03:12:36
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norahazahrani :
Thanks for sharing this
2026-10-03 09:32:52
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Faith n healing | w/ Asma :
Our favorite doctor ♥️
2026-10-03 07:56:06
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tkat :
do a video on how you do your tarban
2026-10-06 06:40:02
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$FUEGO PEPPERINO$ :
hehe my dad threatens to kill me just for saying shush
2026-10-03 14:09:19
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bfreshpackage&cosmeticsupply :
what if you fail to do it
your child will never trust you again
2026-10-07 08:51:40
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user24881738741531 :
wow. this is so scary how things can go wrong even with heart in the right place
2026-10-04 03:06:55
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user7334318797886 :
That’s heartbreaking
2026-10-08 11:07:02
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barryirlandi :
Yah.. My dad terrified me
2026-11-05 06:32:21
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Z. Belina :
thank you
2026-11-05 03:38:25
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Jason Jk Kumar :
Im learning so much. thank you
2026-11-04 08:04:20
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Daniel k Ansah :
Deep
2026-11-05 08:46:35
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Vashti Birot :
Exactly 💯 true
2026-10-07 01:38:09
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