@quiet_margins: I recorded this the other day with every intention of leaving it in the vault because I don’t want to be viewed as someone who simply gives dating advice, even if it comes from experience. I’m far more multifaceted than that, and this page is mostly for funsies. 😂 However, the male response around here lately has tickled me enough that I decided to see what direction they choose to take this one. For those who hear the message: your person is out there. Be encouraged. 🤍

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ms__williams__
Ms Williams | Content Creator :
Most men dont RISE to YOU...they will ALWAYS try and BRING YOU DOWN to his level...
2026-10-04 18:18:12
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theeprettyinvestor
The Pretty Investor :
The men that do care are usually users
2026-10-03 17:57:03
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thiccbulbasaur
🦂Gigi🦂 :
the ambition gap. like why do you have a PhD, masters, go to the gym three times go to therapy every week why would you settle for someone who does less or has less?
2026-10-03 21:00:42
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tashenaj
tashenaj :
I heard you I swear but the face card is cardinggggg 😍
2026-10-09 03:25:08
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nainaik2
Renee Kaz :
I learned this from my sons, they were not inspired by their sister’s achievements. They weren’t even interested in being competitive with her.
2026-10-04 15:21:21
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c33cyn
Thia :
Physician black woman here. I whole heartedly agree. Date your bracket and save your heart.
2026-10-05 02:57:32
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dutch_travelnanny
Rara :
I remember when I told my ex husband I passed my real estate test and he asked if I was trying to make him jealous. I was like what the hell.
2026-10-03 20:08:42
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feli_machiavelli
Feli Machiavelli :
They won’t even get therapy!
2026-10-04 00:41:47
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sonyalove48
Sonya Love ❌❌❌❌ :
The Judge told me in my divorce that, given my level of intelligence, my next spouse should be on my level 💯💯💯💯
2026-10-03 20:21:03
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rariaan_lo
Naarai J.R Longwe :
To avoid an unhealthy dynamic, ladies, compatibility matters. Date someone who can meet you where you are financially, emotionally and mentally…..It’s not about being identical or equals, but about being aligned.
2026-10-05 04:09:31
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blackcherryparadises
❤️‍🔥 :
So many successful black women are paying bills and pouring love and encouragement and resources into men who hate them for it because they just dont want to be alone. It’s a horror story.
2026-10-04 19:31:24
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cindy.nimer
Cindy Nimer :
They will spend your money if you let them
2026-10-03 20:19:14
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not_jacobi_tho
JJ :
You are gorgeous! love your hair
2026-10-03 18:46:17
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joebop21
JoeBop21 :
Ma'am, I hate to break it to you but if a WHITE police officer pulls you over, I'm willing to bet he will not care about your achievements, to him your STILL a NINJA, college or status doesn't change that. MAKE SURE YOU TEACH THEM THAT😌😌😌😌😌😌
2026-10-03 23:25:30
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tru2_ria
Maria Shade-Lee :
Baby….you dropping gems we have learned the hard way.
2026-10-09 02:45:04
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goode.hair.co
goode.hair :
Broke off an engagement because of this and everyone else thinks I’m crazy for doing that, but I could feel myself going crazy trying to pull him up.
2026-10-09 01:51:04
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kendallthematriarch
kendallthematriarch :
Yup. The one I had got me pregnant. He was jealous. 1st thing he said was “now you can’t….” Jokes on u cuz I can & did
2026-10-09 00:58:33
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being_kandi_mae
Being_Kandi_Mae :
All of This!!!!! Listen Ladies
2026-10-08 08:52:32
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livewellfactory
Livewellfactory :
It’s true! When I landed my 1st 6 figure position, I saw it in my ex-husband’s eye that our marriage was over.
2026-10-04 17:08:40
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candance890
candance890 :
Instead he’ll try to humble you.
2026-10-03 22:19:44
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angeliquecookhaye
Angie :
Unfortunately sis……not too many quality men are around!
2026-10-04 15:54:51
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ace._of._hearts
Mo_Money_5 :
A word to the wise...please stop listening to these sideline counselors!!!! They'll have your life screwed up!!! Your achievements can't love you back!
2026-10-04 04:27:49
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butterstreete
butterb :
The men in the comments are proving your point sis. Sighs.
2026-10-07 11:44:54
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bookswithbonnie
BooksWithBonnie :
1. This is my first impression of you. 2. You are gorgeous. 3. You are now my mentor 🤷🏾‍♀️
2026-10-04 14:54:43
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fitflairby_jummy
Big Jumz :
Mind you, they’ll still spend your money whilst hating on your success!
2026-10-05 20:25:42
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