@rinispencer: 🚩 they’ll either take the time to be curious, make room for the your heart and truly care. OR they’ll become defensive & flip the script.

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amaliaaaav666
AmaliaaaV :
This is my husband. I just need him to put me through nursing school
2026-10-05 00:03:37
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lalalunitajade
Anna Jade :
I'm not starting a fight.... I'm just telling you that you hurt my feelings....
2026-10-04 03:27:38
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trailorswiftalyssa122
trailorswiftalyssa122 :
This my bf
2026-10-13 14:16:34
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baniaz4u
zainy🍁 :
It’s always a competition 🙄
2026-10-03 23:48:18
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rosa.._..marie
Rosa🩵 :
youre ALWAYS .. ALWAYS .. ALWAYS OMG
2026-10-13 13:30:20
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carrvamplord
ghost :
honestly if your person is like this just leave, if they act like this that is emotional abuse and neglect
2026-10-05 19:10:07
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heidiafternarcissism
Heidi SMITH :
The exhausting part is realizing you can bring the same concern ten different ways and still end up defending why you had it in the first place. At some point you realize the problem was never that you explained it wrong. ❤️
2026-10-04 16:20:37
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muhhwie
Muhhwie :
😔
2026-10-04 10:38:13
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exiguous.time
exiguous.time :
I would often get “I don’t want to spend an hour talking in circles with you” when it could have just been a 5-10min conversation because it became about addressing what was currently disrespectful in trying to address something I’m trying to bring something up.
2026-10-04 19:32:35
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caitlin_william_harmony
Caitlin 💕 :
This but my "best friend" and it's the most heart breaking thing ever 🥺
2026-10-13 12:26:48
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hobbsy492
hobbsy :
omg this is hard to watch
2026-10-13 10:12:51
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controlledscreamer
Kirsten :
Word. For. Word. And then: “You’re so controlling! You don’t even care about MY feelings! You’re so narcissistic. You’re really abusive.”
2026-10-04 00:19:16
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jenisabel_
Jen ᥫ᭡ :
Hugs to everyone who’s going through this! It hurts. Please think that you are not alone. 🥺❤️
2026-10-13 10:54:31
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claribel99
Claribel :
So happy to be single!!
2026-10-04 15:53:07
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wheatoast
🥯✨Lindsy ✨🐥 :
I don’t miss this. I lived this for 13 years. I shrank myself. I developed CPTSD and psychosis. I still live with the damage.
2026-10-05 15:59:56
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katiecarabin6
Katie :
this is my ex 😂
2026-10-04 12:46:52
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thanke_u
thanke_u :
Wow, I just came to a realization. I’ve had this exact conversation multiple times. I’m not crazy 🥺
2026-10-04 14:06:22
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janebri.designs
Brianna Jane :
The "Oh, here we go again," well yes in fact we go again because it wasn't resolved the last time I brought it up.
2026-10-05 20:38:35
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spoiledxrotten
katrina :
he literally told me “you’re the problem because you bring things up. stop having feelings and stop being emotionally sensitive and offended” like HUH
2026-10-04 17:32:41
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bk944763
Bill :
anyone else just hear saxophones
2026-10-05 21:32:31
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tastethesegrapes
SØRƐN :
I bring up my feelings and get attacked 🤣
2026-10-04 22:22:46
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metastable95
MetaStable95 :
I'm so tired of the "but you..." I'm talking about MY feelings now.
2026-10-05 08:32:09
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travelntired
Ashley :
This is my husband
2026-10-04 23:51:35
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keri1702
Keri :
Literally word for word. ☹️
2026-10-04 05:43:00
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onusryan
onusryan :
Oh you gotta do the version where the person then tries to be the bigger person (or something) and insists that they DO have a list of things you’ve done. But they’re not going to reveal the list because they don’t want to be hurtful like how you’re treating them.
2026-10-04 04:58:57
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