LARA K || NYC Therapist
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WhyamIhere? :
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2026-10-04 22:02:01
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𝓡 𝓾 𝓫 𝓲 :
I feel like it just gets to a point where women just get tired of repeating themselves so we become bitter
2026-10-04 18:59:53
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chungus :
my bf and I rap battle argue
2026-10-05 00:31:07
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abc2fun :
I struggle so bad with stonewalling
2026-10-04 04:54:35
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Ryu :
It’s your TONE
2026-10-04 19:01:21
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VCreateArt :
this video has made me realize how much my bf and I have grown throughout our relationship.
2026-10-04 17:57:10
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snowdrifttt :
I had to work on the “you never” and “you always” soooooo much at the beginning of my relationship with my now-husband. Didn’t even realize how much I said that until my husband point blank asked me why I use such definite terms when I know it’s not true, to which I didn’t have an answer, I could only back track and say “well, it’s not like you NEVER do it, but” and then I just felt childish. I don’t do it anymore 😂
2026-10-04 15:44:07
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Yourfavoritehomehustler :
I need to work on criticism 😭
2026-10-04 14:10:05
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.•¡rebs_*! :
1. criticism 2. contempt 3. defensiveness 4. stonewalling
2026-10-07 03:50:21
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Cortany Beams :
How do you stop the eye rolling? Because sometimes a eye roll is better than what I really want to say and sometimes I don’t even realize I’m doing it
2026-10-04 13:30:24
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happyhippo3000 :
wow, idk how i have lost my way. i have really adopted all of these traits. i didnt used to be like that. i wonder why i have adopted these traits.
2026-10-07 17:17:49
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Q :
Me. The stonewaller. I just get so overwhelmed or feel too emotional and I physically shut down. I’m not trying to be intentionally manipulative or mean. I just can’t regulate myself.
2026-10-05 08:01:04
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ash🤍 :
my partner and i both get so overwhelmed when we are upset we have to stone wall. once we are calmer, then we talk. is that considered a relationship killer?
2026-10-04 10:40:41
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Mercedeez💕 :
Me and my man are doing everything wrong 😅
2026-10-04 16:36:14
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Kayla :
my boyfriend and i never raise our voices at each other, try not to be sarcastic or condescending when communicating, and overall just have empathy and respect when it comes to addressing issues in the relationship. when you’re in a relationship you are a team and it’s you and your partner against said issue, not you and your partner against each other. a lot of people forget that and it’s one of the things that kills relationships very fast
2026-10-07 15:05:46
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user4783690755964 :
My last relationship had all of this 😢
2026-10-07 13:50:18
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Kirsten Schoonmaker Bryant :
Gottman’s Four Horsemen
2026-10-07 01:03:22
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a._.i_v_i_l_o :
One thing I try to do when having difficulty convos is using I statements. I feel this way when. Or I feel like instead of. You make me feel or you make me feel like. Using I statements instead of you statements avoids your partner from feel attacked
2026-10-04 15:51:05
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magicalgalxynarwhal :
i try and not use you statements but it’s so hard when i try so hard to be mature and express how i feel i always get attacked and called a cry baby i do cry a lot but i try and hold it back i just don’t understand how to make him understand how much he hurts me he doesn’t care and never apologizes
2026-10-04 04:37:21
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Illhavewaterthanks :
My ex used "always" and "never" so I'd try to push back on the extreme qualifiers and she'd say "oh you know what I mean" which then minimized my own issues while maximizing the importance of hers. I reacted poorly to this over 10+ years and we're now much better co-parents than partners.
2026-10-04 18:13:55
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JessMc :
My partner used to stonewall me every time we had a problem. We do love each other and ended up moving in together. Now that we co-exist (for a year now) & can’t ignore each other, we’ve had the most productive conversations & are the best we’ve ever been! Not a PSA to move in with someone you can’t have healthy convos with btw 😂 we just both had the will to work through it.
2026-10-04 04:25:19
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Kris 𖣂 :
Brooo the defensiveness is killing me why not just hear me out and listen and care and be there for me instead of being defensive and deflecting
2026-10-06 22:04:50
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lumpybum78 :
Guilty of all 😣
2026-10-05 15:00:54
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brynlie :
That color looks great on you!
2026-10-04 17:24:08
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ravagetalon :
My wife has severe ADHD. I don't criticize her. but I definitely have building resentment
2026-10-04 13:06:16
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