ey bf2, not only utshwala. I struggle to connect with my mom because sikhula she always had a wedding,birthday party, church event, or imcimbi to go to on Weekends. Weekdays she worked at Port Shepston, sise thekwini. Akaphuzi, akabhemi, god fearing woman. But asixoxi lutho noMah. yonke into iSurface level. Ngyamthanda, ngyambonga ukungikhulisa, unothando uMah, genuinely the best mom a child could ask and angibambile igqubu but ungaphela u3 months singakhulumanga efoni (besides a check up text every 2 weeks) and honestly ngeke kube b'hlungu ndawo because asi bond'anga sisabancane🤷♂️
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Hlonie_Mzizi🦋💞 :
People don't understand ukuthi izingane ziyakhula and ziyabona if ubaba wazo ebengenzi kahle empilweni yazo. I'm saying this because my father was also distant sikhula, even though he didn't drink or smoke but he was a present absent father. And ngike ngibone ukuthi abantu bayithatha kancane leyonto, ukufakela imali umntwani is not raising him/her 🥲. I parenting ayipheleli ekondleni and I wish people could understand that.