@notdoneyet.co: Stop being the rescue boat for people who keep choosing the storm. Sometimes loving people means standing where you are, keeping your light on, and letting them decide whether they’re ready to find their way. #LighthouseTheory #NotDoneYet #LifeLessons #Healing #SelfWorth
It was October 1995, off the coast of Newfoundland. The massive, nuclear-powered aircraft carrier USS Abraham Lincoln—the pride of the U.S. Navy fleet—was navigating through a dark, foggy night alongside its massive battle group.
Suddenly, a bright, unmoving light appeared on a direct collision course.
The following is the "transcript" of the radio exchange that followed:
Americans: Please divert your course 15 degrees to the North to avoid a collision.
Canadians: Recommend you divert YOUR course 15 degrees to the South to avoid a collision.
Americans: This is the Captain of a US Navy ship. I say again, divert YOUR course.
Canadians: No. I say again, you divert YOUR course.
Americans: This is the aircraft carrier USS Abraham Lincoln, the second largest ship in the United States Atlantic Fleet. We are accompanied by three destroyers, three cruisers, and numerous support vessels. I demand that you change your course 15 degrees north, or appropriate measures will be taken to ensure the safety of this ship!
Canadians: This is a lighthouse. Your call
2026-10-05 02:08:47
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Andra 💜🩷 :
absolutely. stop chasing ships be the light house the ones meant to find you Will
2026-10-05 21:36:02
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Gary Prout385 :
Well, said my friend I love the wisdom that’s in you. Thank you.
2026-10-04 17:55:37
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jamesjohnson3775 :
Yes I did too amen
2026-10-04 22:09:48
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Shannon Heim :
Great perspective!
2026-10-04 18:51:20
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Dana Smith :
That spoke volumes
2026-10-04 19:37:43
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titans7777 :
Endless wisdom brother. Preach 🙏
2026-10-05 19:39:38
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weebie :
You're amazing, Thank You... [Pray]
2026-10-04 20:49:17
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Christopher Perryman :
real talk. was me for years. 1000%
2026-10-04 13:48:50
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Pietro Baker :
I totally agree
2026-10-04 15:11:25
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Centerline Sports :
That’s really good!!!
2026-10-04 13:30:24
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Sherry Gallaher :
Don’t abandon yourself for someone to see your value when you know it’s always been there!!!!💯💯💯💯
2026-10-13 00:20:55
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Alex-the-mechanic :
I hear you
2026-10-04 18:32:54
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dragoncatzzz :
big time truth!!!
2026-10-04 22:24:32
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Terri :
Facts
2026-10-05 04:00:18
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Gen-❌ BigSteph in .225 . :
🥰
2026-10-05 19:04:54
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Debi Hampton :
Thank you! I think I was conceived at lighthouse.
2026-10-04 23:54:15
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Tele Guy :
#truth
2026-10-04 14:17:09
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Them Couie’s :
Most learn the hard way, just like me. Whole lot more peaceful once ya figure it out!
2026-10-04 16:16:24
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miltonclements7 :
perfect message! 💯
2026-10-04 15:15:45
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unhinged.and.hydrated :
You need to write a book!
2026-10-05 20:41:11
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Krusta :
Homie, ou speak solid.
How did you get here?
Thank you
2026-10-04 14:47:04
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NorthernAcresHomestead :
I feel this way. My mom is in active addiction. For decades I was abandoning my post. I went to bed wondering if it was the last day i’d ever hear her voice. That motivated me to chase her. The guilt I had because I felt like I needed to be there every moment, meanwhile the toxicity broke me from the inside out. I now stay standing. I feel better in soo many ways, for once I feel happiness. But it meant abandoning that ship. She’s still alive, but I mourn her every day as if she has passed🥺. She’s been in active addiction for at least 40 years. I don’t think she will ever be able to overcome it, but I hope every single day that she does🥺
2026-10-04 15:53:01
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jojo :
I've been like you too🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰im.trying to be like a lighthouse♥️♥️♥️♥️
2026-10-04 17:03:10
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