Kelsier Viltamir
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Ashley :
Keep this in mind also… every man who has ever hurt me (emotionally/physically) told me in the beginning that he “would never”. So telling a woman that “I would never” carries NO WEIGHT AT ALL!
2026-10-04 16:04:31
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Travis Messer :
I am an Uber driver. I give my number out BECAUSE I know its all men until its no men. If they feel safe with me, they can call me again. i heard one of my regulars give my number to her friend saying "trust me. he's safe" and honestly it made my fucking year.
2026-10-06 07:43:23
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Nikki :
“I know she’s safe. She doesn’t.” PERIOD.
2026-10-04 16:53:24
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Melancholy & the ♾ Dadness :
Treat every gun like it’s loaded til you know for sure it’s not.
2026-10-06 16:47:07
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Liam :
I feel like so many guys want applause for not being a rapist. Like it’s not even the bare minimum to respect other people’s bodies?
2026-10-04 15:55:02
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Manuel Perez de la M :
I hate feeling like a threat, but it’s not about me. It’s not about any one guy. It’s about the fact that any guy a girl doesn’t know is a potential threat. Hell, even a guy a girl does know can quickly become a threat. The fact that so many guys get defensive about it is part of the issue.
2026-10-04 17:42:46
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Cara Fry885 :
"I want her to treat me like I'm one of them because that's how she stays safe". The problem is that a lot of men do not care if we are safe.
2026-10-04 16:00:36
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richardwonka :
A good approach to explaining this.
2026-10-04 14:39:16
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🩷Abby🩷 :
We say “all men” because when we trust the wrong man, we’re to blame for trusting them instead of them being blamed for hurting us
2026-10-04 18:21:08
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SaltybutSleepy :
my ex would adamantly insist he is a safe man who would never hurt a woman. I had to flee from him due to abuse. his abuse was emotional, verbal, psychological, and financial. he didn't see that as abuse. because he hadn't yet laid a hand on me (even though he had threatened multiple times) he believes he is a safe and respectful man. so even men that insist they are safe, are also not safe.
2026-10-09 04:33:57
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DD :
You get it.
2026-10-04 15:46:49
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Robert :
Its not hard to understand once you have explained the perspectve. I, personally, never thought about it the way you put it. Excellent take.
2026-10-05 22:00:04
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Tesh :
"you treat every gun as loaded even if you're pretty sure it's not, because getting it wrong can be deadly" way back when this was the thing that rewired how I thought about it, hope it helps others understand too
2026-10-07 15:01:36
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Kass :
I love this point of view I have a friend I looked at as a little sister I've had people ask me why I let her say all men are shit to me since I'm a guy and alot don't understand every man is all men till she trust you
2026-10-07 17:56:38
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shots4shots :
“I want her to treat me like one of them” hit hard af. Please, treat me the same. It’s me until it’s none of us. We are Jane Doe until there is no Jane Doe.
2026-10-06 18:27:31
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aRraaaRrrr :
and this is the Gospel that SHOULD be preached. thank you! carry on sir.
2026-10-07 17:28:56
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Moni :
Well said.. wise and wonderful. Thank you!! 💯👏👏👏
2026-10-07 23:28:01
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Teresa Franklin Anderson :
Another content creator posted about his goddaughter in college. She overheard her very good male friend laughing about the Cornell SA & stating they needed "to get that in" before they graduate. She was so upset & shocked. He has walked her home before & she been the only girl in theater house prior to this. You never truly know someone imo.
2026-10-05 15:51:51
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Kristin 🎀 :
And you’re a REAL MAN! A real protector instead of predator.
2026-10-05 22:37:17
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ASH.freakin.Toler :
My 9yo daughter is sitting by me and heard you and asked if another man is being dumb, I said, "No baby, he's saying what good men would say to "It's All Men." She watched your video and then we had a conversation. I'm trying to teach her, warn her, prepare her as well as I can so she will stay safe.
2026-10-04 18:49:52
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Jason :
Just because I know she's safe. Doesn't mean she knows it. THAT PART!!!!!
2026-10-04 15:32:51
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shyumpyumpkins :
And it will be all men until men hold each other accountable. Thank you for trying to be part of the solution.
2026-10-04 23:08:29
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Chris Campagna :
I don’t get why this is such a difficult concept 😭😭
2026-10-04 18:48:38
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Jay Monster :
this is what those men don't understand. "being safe" isn't something we get to determine. we need to SHOW that we are safe. any man that has a problem with that IS. NOT. SAFE.
2026-10-06 12:13:16
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Kevin Thezombie🫀 :
for all the men saying they can just tell them she is safe... THAT'S NOT HOW IT WORKS! SHE GETS TO MAKE THE DECISION IF YOU ARE SAFE NOT YOU
2026-10-04 20:09:09
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