@mystic.farah: I know this might look like “just a messed up food order” 😭 but for someone who’s spent years people pleasing, staying quiet and telling herself “it’s fine” when something bothers her… these little moments actually matter. Especially for girls from cultures like mine, where so many of us grow up learning to keep the peace, be accommodating and put ourselves last, speaking up can feel way bigger than it actually is. I ordered GYG on Uber Eats and when it came, the order was wrong. Idk what happened to me in that moment but I got SO angry over the inconvenience. But this time I actually listened to my anger and you best believe I drove my 🍑 to GYG. I explained what happened and asked for what I actually ordered. Then they were like “do you want the avocado and the other stuff on the side?” and I was like no I want the correct order made again. And guess what? They fixed it AND gave me free churros with chocolate sauce for the wait 😍 Stopping self abandonment isn’t always dramatic. Sometimes it looks like: • saying “this isn’t what I asked for” • letting yourself feel rage • asking for something to be corrected • not making yourself smaller just to avoid being seen as “difficult” • trusting that your needs are allowed to take up space I’m learning that standing up for myself doesn’t automatically make me rude, demanding or difficult. If you’re a recovering people pleaser too, let this be your reminder that choosing yourself can start in the smallest moments too. #peoplepleaser #selfabandonment #boundaries #gyg #latebloomer

mystic.farah

Open In TikTok:

Region: AU

Sunday 04 October 2026 15:36:43 GMT