@nealkshah: A hospice nurse spent years at the bedsides of the dying, present for hundreds of final moments. And in all those goodbyes, she noticed something striking. When people reach the very end, the things they cling to, the things they talk about, almost never include their job titles, their bank balances, or the things they bought. What rises to the surface is always the same small handful of things, and they cost nothing. First, the people they loved. Not their achievements, but the relationships, the hands they held, the ones they wished they had called more. Second, the moments of joy they let pass by, the sunsets they were too busy to watch, the laughter they rushed through. Many wished they had worried less and lived more. And third, being true to themselves, having the courage to live their own life rather than the one others expected of them. None of it is about money, status, or productivity. At the end, it comes down to love, presence, and authenticity. The gift in hearing this now is that you still have time to choose them. So call the person you love. Slow down. Be yourself. Follow for more reflections on living and aging well, and share this with someone who needs the reminder. #EndOfLife #WhatMatters #LiveFully

Neal K. Shah, NIH-PI, CareYaya
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picklejuice_13
The Intolerable Picklejuice :
1. forgive 2. spend your money 3. forgive
2026-10-04 20:45:09
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johnsonjohnson178
Johnson :
some people don't deserve forgiveness
2026-10-04 19:14:56
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nflelimininator
Reply Guy :
Nobody on their deathbed says "I wish I worked more overtime"
2026-10-05 00:25:43
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bunny86034
bunny860 :
my sister is a narcissist and I will never regret cutting her off.
2026-10-04 21:24:17
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kaizerdude
KaizerDude :
I have people I can Never Ever forgive
2026-10-04 18:10:59
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yycisreal
SnowbirdAZ in YYC :
Nobody ever said geez I wish I worked harder
2026-10-04 18:46:16
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mountainhunt0
Bob :
One of my favorite quotes is holding a grudge is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die
2026-10-04 19:32:46
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isitpossible71
isitpossible :
My dad died when he was just about to enter his retirement. Worked all his life for nothing to enjoy 💔
2026-10-04 19:39:06
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rawdeal123
Jimmy Carswell :
follow Jesus Christ and all these will be taken care of. set up for yourself treasure in heaven.
2026-10-05 00:33:22
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tzuzooma
user6903571458578 :
Nope i donot regret cutting my sister out of my life . Betrayal is unforgivable
2026-10-04 17:04:53
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larryx7612
Larryxlife :
Thanks for what you do
2026-10-04 18:47:36
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musicmaven68
muffinhemingway :
My older sister spent a lot of time and energy stressing about how much to have for retirement. She passed unexpectedly after what was meant to be a straight forward surgical procedure - she passed in recovery. She was 60 and all that hard earned money went to her husband who did not treat her the way he should have.
2026-10-04 18:50:47
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fairy.dust991
Fairy Dust :
Yup exactly staying in a marriage they totally regret
2026-10-05 01:30:13
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nancyyjg
Nancy :
the little things 🙏💕
2026-10-05 01:24:12
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elevation.chronicles
Elevation Chronicles :
If I die today, my regret will be about money. My regret is that I haven’t saved enough cash for my kids. Guys pls do you. Money is as important as love if not more important
2026-10-04 18:56:06
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wendy.corum
🌪️💯🖤Wendy from Ky🖤💯🌪️ :
Exerting
2026-10-04 22:30:25
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jojohoohoo
joehoo :
Thank you 🙏
2026-10-05 00:55:45
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carolinap1979
CarolinaP1979 :
I went to buy the victoria secret wallet that I wanted ($33.50), after watching this video. Im so happy right now!
2026-10-04 21:41:00
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angelinanav699
lina Lopez nav :
i don't regret anything everyone i didnt spend time with is bc they were shitty human beings to me !!!! so yah no guit here i forgive but it doesn't mean i ever have to speak to them
2026-10-04 19:01:44
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ohnaninani54321
Nani1985 :
Absolutely 💯
2026-10-04 16:43:22
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shilla284
user4542504698140 :
This message could be misleading cause sometimes You really need to cut poisonous people off whether they’re your blood related or not.
2026-10-04 18:22:52
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stephennon
twingo :
It’s not pride, it’s the fear of getting hurt again
2026-10-04 19:35:33
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markgarcia260
LIVEnGOOD :
regrets will end your life sooner than later! just do it!! Love, Enjoy, Forgive!
2026-10-04 18:47:21
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francke_17
Frida :
Not always that easy. You can reach out and end up with negativity or harmful people in your life.
2026-10-04 18:28:01
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shelly8603
shelly :
I'm still working, but I'm spending all of my money on trips away, part of me is like just do it, the other part of me is saying, how you going to pay the bills when you retire, then the youthful me says, what if you save every penny, than you can't walk and enjoy it.
2026-10-04 17:44:16
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