@breakuparchitect: Sometimes the problem isn’t that your partner has a friend. It’s watching that “friend” slowly get parts of your relationship that used to belong to you. They have time for them when they’re too busy for you. They light up when their name appears. They think to tell them things before they tell you. They share problems from your relationship with them… then use those same problems as a defence when you ask why the friendship feels different. And every concern gets answered with: “We’re just friends.” Maybe they are. But sometimes the question isn’t only what they’re calling the relationship. It’s what place that person has started taking in it. #betrayal #cheating #infidelity #relationshipproblems #lies