Adele Marchant
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Monday 05 October 2026 23:31:00 GMT
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kris :
focus on you until the focus is on you!
2026-10-06 21:49:12
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Anna Hobbs :
i was straight up evil as a single woman
2026-10-06 10:53:51
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ana🪽 :
Working out and working! I just wish I had friends to go out I feel very lonely even though I have a boyfriend😞
2026-10-06 17:14:12
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Kelly :
I do the same thing! Basically I stop letting them consume my thoughts and take good care of myself
2026-10-06 04:00:10
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Abbey🪽💋 :
You should absolutely have hobbies and your own life but I should not have to play games in my own relationship.
2026-10-06 04:18:09
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almondthecolor :
I did this- joined a dance crew and now i have five new girlfriends and my Saturdays are filled with dance practice and hanging out with them. I also finally got hired and have been working and spending money on myself and admittedly on our house. Its been FOUR months and he finally did the dishes (without being asked) and called me pretty and texted me a sweet message (he used to be so good at doing those things but stopped). He's only been doing it for for like two days so far but we'll see if it sticks
2026-10-09 00:54:21
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athomewith_abby :
Decenter men
2026-10-06 18:47:35
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La La B :
I did that. He started whining and go angry.
2026-10-06 02:56:54
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Ally Nogarr :
I used to black out on random couches .. I cannot do that now Adele
2026-10-09 00:28:07
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Meaninglessness :
If you let yourself go in a relationship and lost yourself, it’s likely that you’ve become unhappy. You change yourself for the better, have a healthier body and mindset, and then you realize you’ve outgrown this person. It’s a win-win.
2026-10-06 05:16:23
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sydd :
Started doing this and he started accusing me of cheating
2026-10-06 19:55:06
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kayladlao :
I will say I was single 5 years before I got with my partner. I heavily invested into myself so when I got into my current relationship, I continued doing all the things I enjoyed in those 5 years. This is the happiest and healthiest relationship I’ve ever been in. I do my own thing, he does his own thing and then our time together is our’s. We have the full understanding that we are our own people and we love that about each other.
2026-10-06 18:10:46
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Leena🍉 :
well I'm getting my hair done , facials, massage , workout... read my books ... developing a personal Curriculum asking around how to start something ...decided already to spend my day with family ... and goin out with my bestie much more than before
2026-10-06 14:40:18
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verapris24 :
I did this for 6 months and he got worse didn’t get the message. I broke it off and he acted all shocked as if I blindsided him 🤷🏻♀️
2026-10-06 02:21:07
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Rukia :
Don’t agree. If he can’t handle your attention he’s weak. If you have to play games he isn’t right for you
2026-10-06 03:31:31
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user5417448877020 :
I did and he cheated with the Pilates girl next door
2026-10-07 13:53:03
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KaraEason :
I have been doing a lot of this and he just seems to be getting further away.
2026-10-08 17:24:39
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Kat LS :
but you should've never stop doing those things just because your in a relationship
2026-10-08 21:21:33
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Queera :
I read once if you focus on him he thinks he's really important and will also focus on himself...if you focus on yourself you become more important to him
2026-10-08 16:57:23
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Skin Alchemist 🪄🧞♀️🔮🌸 :
lol I’m working out now to lose the last 15lbs to my goal weight, getting a haircut that he doesn’t want me to get, micro blading my brows and getting lip injections. We’re already on rocky terrain, he’s gonna lose his shit 🤣 he already thinks I’m seeing someone else.
2026-10-07 02:30:58
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Aless :
lol the moment I felt like my husband wasn’t putting in enough effort I booked a flight the next day without him to Thailand [Tears of joy] we’ve been together ten years. Definitely taught him a lesson
2026-10-07 09:21:47
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L 🩷 :
I buy pj's and read 😂
2026-10-06 13:38:52
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yogitherapi :
My guy is gone for a month to visit his home country I’ve realized how much I’ve over invested in this relationship. Refocusing my energy on me.
2026-10-06 21:44:52
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dariia..0 :
Omg this is so true🙏 we need our own little lives otherwise we can hang onto the minuscule things or moments that drive us nuts, which probably mean nothing but it’s magnified since its what we’re constantly focusing on.
2026-10-06 03:21:54
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India 🦢🍓🦢 :
I was going to say, the first month they’ll just be enjoying their space
2026-10-06 21:02:44
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